SCORPIO
The contents of this pages are taken from "Lesbian
Love Signs"
An Astrological Guide for Women Loving Women by Aurora
From:
Lesbian Love Signs by Aurora
Scorpio
Lesbian Women:
Birth: Oct.24 - Nov.22
Element: Water
Quality: Feminine
Planetary Ruler: Pluto
Color: Black
Day: Tuesday
Stone: Topaz
Flower-Plant: Heather
Sybol: The Scorpion and the Eagle |
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Scorpio
Women:
Scorpio is a water sign, concerned with emotionality, sensitivity,
and intuition. Scorpio women experience life with tremendous emotional
intensity. They are all-or-nothing people. They may go through
experiences of quite excruciating agony, yet come out of these
experiences transformed and more powerful than before.
The
Scorpio woman has great depths of sensitivity and also tremendous
power. She definitely commands a healthy respect from those who
know her and know what she is capable of. The source of her strength
and power is in her ability to withstand great intensity and give
great intensity. If a Scorpio woman is deeply offended, she is
capable of holding a resentment for life, and spending a great
deal of energy fantasizing a way to retaliate. She doesn't want
to forget. The truth of the matter is that Scorpio is a powerful
sign, either for the positive or the negative. A Scorpio woman
also has tremendous character and self control. This can prevent
her from stooping to revenge if she is abused. It is not because
she is afraid to retaliate, but because she disdains acting from
petty motives.
Scorpio
women often have considerable psychic ability. They can pierce
through other people's facades and probe into the secret recesses
of another's pysche. They often "know" when someone
is lying. They may keep a lot of things secret themselves, as
they are very protective of their own inner life, but when they
so desire, they can express themselves very bluntly and be to
the point. They don't believe in being diplomatic or protecting
another person's ego. Needless to say, the Scorpio woman is capable
of giving a tremendous amount of love. She is willing to give
all of herself and in turn expects her partner to give the totality
of herself. However, not everyone is capable of meeting the Scorpio
woman's expectations. A relationship with a Scorpio can be a stormy
adventure. If the Scorpio woman suspects her partner is not completely
faithful, she can become extremely jealous. A relationship with
this woman works best if both women are strong individuals who
are committed to working out their relationship through thick
and thin. The Scorpio woman is capable of deep devotion and will
open her heart to someone she believes she can trust implicitly.
Scorpio
Loving Scorpio
The Scorpio/Scorpio combination is very powerful, and can be very
positive or very destructive. These two women are water signs,
concerned with the experience of the overwhelming transformation
of emotions. These two women will establish a strong emotional
and psychic bond with each other, and are both all-or-nothing
women: they are willing to give their all, and they demand all.
They will understand and respect the intensity of each other's
emotions, and will respect the fact that the other is a strong-willed
and often uncompromising individual. Ultimately, each can count
on the integrity and commitment of the other.
This
relationship can reach great heights and equally deep lows. Both
women can be possessive and jealous, but both also hate to be
controlled or dominated in any way. If these two women clash,
open warfare can result. Both these women have a lot of power,
and neither forgets a wrong easily. If these two disagree about
relationship guidelines, their relationship may deteriorate until
there is little loving feeling left. Both women love intensely
and dislike intensely.
A
great deal of compromise is needed if this relationship is to
be a happy one. These two women have much in common and this should
help them understand each other's motives. They are both capable
of deep emotional intimacy, and are both very loyal, with strong
sexual drives. This union has a good chance of being harmonious.
A deep and abiding affection can be developed and maintained for
a very long time. They are a special combination, very spiritual
in nature.
Scorpio
Loving Libra
The Libra and Scorpio combination can be a high-powered low-tolerance
connection. Libra, an air sign, likes to approach the relationship
with mental objectivity, and Scorpio, a water sign, embraces all
relationship experiences in an emotionally subjective force. Closeness
and sharing are a priority, but their approaches are different.
The Libra woman needs to feel she is a part of the relationship
in a cooperative arrangement with her partner, and the Scorpio
woman wants to submerge her identity with her partner and at the
same time expand her personal power through the totality of their
union. To the Libra, this kind of total union could be threatening,
expecially as it is so filled with behavioural expectations. The
Scorpio woman may be frustrated with the Libra woman's need to
maintain her emotional identity, and she becomes impatient with
the Libra's need to discuss their relationship status in verbal
terms.
They
can create a strong union if they can acknowledge their different
ways of relating. Both women need and desire closeness in their
relationships, as this creates a fulfillment that is something
both need. The Libra woman must realize that her intellect sometimes
isolates her Scorpio partner. She needs to open up herself to
a deeper emotional level if she is to come to terms with her vulnerablitity.
The Scorpio woman will learn to approach their relationship from
a more objective perspective in order to relate to her mental
needs more rationally. If these two women can compromise on this,
their personal strength will become the stability of their relationship.
Their loving exchanges can meet needs in the realm of deep self-knowledge.
They
can share in warm and deep ways with strong verbal and emotional
interchanges. Intimacy is an important and useful way of touching
each other's hearts. Sexually the frequent and consistently good
experience transforms both of them. There is, indeed, a transformational
quality to their whole relationship.
Scorpio Loving Aquarius
The Scorpio/Aquarian combination brings together women of nature's
power. This combination uses every asset available to relating
to work out their differences. Scorpio, a water sign, takes uncompromising
and emotional stands in life; Aquarius, an air sign, needs to
see her partner clearly at all times. These two women approach
relating differently: the Scorpio woman may have difficulty understanding
the detached and sometimes aloof caring of her Aquarian partner,
and the Aquarian woman may have lessons to learn about the emotionalism
in the Scorpio advances. Both women have pride issues that must
be addressed, and they tend to take stances which are based not
on truth, but on ego gratification. The principles that are important
to them must be redefined in the context of relating equally to
each other. These two women will appreciate the way each has developed
skills to focus on themselves. Both women, though, will resist
any attempts at domination.
The
main area of challenge is centered in the area of physical intimacy.
The sensitive Scorpio woman may feel her Aquarian partner is too
cool for true comfort and is indifferent when in actuality the
Aquarian feels intimacy deeply but wants to take time - months,
even years - to establish complete union. The Aquarian woman sometimes
feels emotionally scattered by the psychic demands of the Scorpio
woman.
When
the challenges are quiet, their relationship is very constructive.
Understanding and kindness prevail, and Aquarius not only learns
about external promises of love, but feels a true sense of heartfelt
contact with another woman. The Scorpio energy verifies the Aquarian
woman's feelings of purpose.
Scorpio
Loving Cancer
The Cancer/Scorpio combination can work very harmoniously. Both
Cancer and Scorpio are water signs, concerned with the expression
of deep emotion. Cancer is concerned with emotional nurturing
and being nurtured. Scorpio embraces life with a passionate and
total intensity, going through powerful transformative experiences.
These two women will feel a strong emotional bond. The Cancer
woman will give her Scorpio partner a complete committment as
she gives her all to everything she involves herself with.
Each
woman is usually able to feel what the other experiences, but
at times they will have trouble understanding each other. The
Cancer woman approaches life with a much softer touch than the
Scorpio. Cancer is highly sensitive but has a capacity to both
give and take a lot of pain. Scorpio pursues whatever she feels
is right with a passionate and relentless determination, and if
necessary she will not shrink from causing another pain in the
process. The super-sensitive Cancer will sometimes be wounded
by her Scorpio partner's barbed words, as the Scorpio woman will
say some things very bluntly in the cause of truth.
The
Scorpio woman enjoys her Cancer partner's tenderness and sentimentality,
but she sometimes becomes impatient with the Cancer's emotional
neediness. Scorpio is very emotional, yet she is also a very strong,
resourceful individual. She will resist being overly solicitous
of the Cancer woman's feelings. The Scorpio woman will need to
stretch herself to empathize with her Cancer partner's need for
emotional security and the Cancer woman will need to learn not
to lean so much on her Scorpio partner for emotional support.
If she can learn this she will find that she will always have
all the support she really needs.
The
emotional bond between these two women is so strong that it can
enable them to overcome these difficulties. The Cancer woman will
learn to be stronger and more independent, and the Scorpio woman
will learn to soften her tendency to be harsh and abrupt with
other people, because of her relationship with her Cancer partner.
Sexually, these two women should be very compatible because both
are deeply emotional and passionate in their approach to love.
Scorpio
Loving Virgo
The Virgo and Scorpio connection can work out very well if certain
illusions are overcome. Virgo is an earth sign and concerned with
what is dependable, reliable, and centered; Scorpio, a water sign,
works principally through powerful intrinsic emotions. Earth and
water support and nourish each other and for this reason these
two women can assist each other in their paths to personal fulfillment.
Each women wants to be able to completely trust and rely on the
other; strength of character and integrity are important and necessary
qualities to them both.
They
have so much to offer each other. Both can be critical, sometimes
in ways that are destructive. The Virgo woman expects and needs
order, and when the Scorpio woman isn't behaving in an orderly
way, the Virgo woman will say so. She does this not out of anger
but in the interest of being truthful. The Scorpio is intensely
direct and emotional about everything in life, and will react
with deeply emotional resentment to the Virgo's criticism, especially
if she believes the criticisms are unfounded. The Scorpio woman,
if angered, can tear down her Virgo partner in devastating ways.
She must be careful of angry verbal exchanges, as she is capable
of pulling out past sensitivities that have left very deep scars.
The Virgo can heal, but will have a hard time forgetting. In spite
of this, these women will both value honesty and sincerety. The
Virgo can gain a deeper inner reflection of her emotional depths,
and the Scorpio can gain a clearer, more detached understanding
of her feelings.
Sexually,
these two will rejoice in the patient and sharing qualities of
their intimacy. They each have finally found a caring that grows
deeper with time.
Scorpio
Loving Capricorn
The Scorpio and Capricorn combination is a sexually passionate
connection. The Scorpio woman, a water sign, is capable of giving
great emotional support, and Capricorn, an earth sign, is concerned
with solid frequency. These two women will support and appreciate
each other, as both are dynamic and have relationship agendas,
and especially expectations of partners. Each respects the strength
and character of the other.
Both
Scorpio and Capricorn tend to be serious about their love, and
in different ways take a profound approach to relating intimately.
Each will sense a bonding with the other, and will be grateful
for it. These two women will be challenged by issues such as control,
as they both have a tendency to relate with full love depth. The
Scorpio woman makes demonstration demands on her Capricorn partner;
the Capricorn woman needs a sense of secure structure and the
intense upheaval of Scorpio's emotions can be threatening to her
at times. A Scorpio can be a threat to her well-organized and
secure existence, challenging her emotional routines.
In
spite of the challenges, sharing is the important character exchange
between them. Both are very willing and able to build a relationship
with deep roots. Both women are capable of depth and are serious
in their approaches to love. Neither expresses affection easily,
but when alone intimacy is a natural part of their affection for
each other.
Scorpio
Loving Leo
The Leo/Scorpio combination can be either very positive or quite
destructive. Both women are very strong, powerful individuals.
Leo, a fire sign, must express herself as she sees best no matter
what. Scorpio, a water sign, derives her strength through the
power of her emotions, and controls others through this power.
The Leo woman is very honest, outspoken, and wears her heart on
her sleeve; the Scorpio woman can also be very outspoken but she
likes to keep her deepest motives hidden. Both women are extremely
strong-willed, although what they want is usually, very different.
Neither finds it easy to compromise. Leo is ruled by the sun and
has that bright open quality of the daylight; Scorpio, by contrast,
is associated with the depth and mystery of the night and what
is hidden from view.
In
spite of these sharp differences, these two women can also complement
each other. Both signs have to do with the release of creative
power. The Leo woman releases creative energy much like the sun
by giving openly and unreservedly of herself. She tends to be
optimistic and also at times a little naive. The Scorpio woman
releases creative power through totally embracing people and situations
and shaping them according to her will. The Leo woman brings fresh,
spontaneous approach to expression; the Scorpio woman brings the
power she derives from her awareness of the depths of human experience.
When they work together harmoniously the power they can release
is tremendous, and they can inspire others with self-confidence
and emotional strength.
The
Leo woman usually has great respect and admiration for her Scorpio
partner. She sees Scorpio as an individual with great strength
whom even she, the Leo, hesitates to challenge. She also appreciates
what she learns about emotional depths from the Scorpio. Sometimes
she'll find it hard to figure out what's really going on with
her Scorpio partner, as the Scorpio does not easily confide in
another. The Scorpio woman also hesitates to try to control her
Leo partner. She appreciates the Leo's honesty and integrity as
well as her strength of character. She will appreciate the openness
of the Leo woman even though at times she will feel the Leo is
insensitive without meaning to be, and she will withdraw when
the Leo asks her to open up more than she is comfortable with.
When these women do disagree, a regular warfare can develop. Fortunately,
they can sense each other's weak points and will usually try to
avoid them.
At
best, these two women are capable of an intense and passionate
relationship. Sexually, they are well matched because each has
an all-or-nothing approach to love. Each is capable of a strong
commitment to making a relationship work.
Scorpio
Loving Sagittarius
The Scorpio/Sagittarius combination brings together two dynamic
and strong-willed women who are temperamentally very different.
Scorpio, a water sign, approaches life through intense emotional
discharges and intakes; Sagittarius, a fire sign, needs complete
freedom and independence. The Scorpio woman desires a complete
emotional union with her partner, while her Sagittarian partner
desires and needs autonomy. Each of these women, in her own way,
is an aggressive individual, but they express their aggression
in different ways. The Scorpio woman is aggressive in the control
she exercises over others with her emotional and psychic energy,
and she doesn't always do this out in the open. The Sagittarian
woman is open, frank, and outspoken in her aggressive assertions,
and may be bewildered by the hidden and subtle ways of her partner.
The Scorpio woman will sometimes take offense at the blunt and
tactless manner of the Sagittarian. The Sagittarian woman may
lose her temper and blow up, but it is always over very quickly.
The Scorpio woman may be deeply confused by this confrontation,
and take a long time to forget it.
Another
challenge these two may experience stems from the fact that the
Scorpio woman takes a firm stance on basic relationship issues.
She may feel insecure with her Sagittarian partner's need for
consistent change. The Sagittarian woman will resist being controlled
by the Scorpio and will tend to react strongly if demads are made
irrationally. The Sagittarian woman will not be molded by Scorpio
as only another Sagittarian can do that. These challenges will
be overcome when understanding and selfless love prevail. Both
women will understand each other's character strengths.
These
two women can also complement each other. The Scorpio woman will
be given a broader view of a relationship's freedoms, and the
Sagittarian woman can learn to get in touch with more real emotions
with her Scorpio partner. Neither one is likely to feel lukewarm
about the other. The women in this relationship are ardent and
passionate in their approaches to intimacy.
Scorpio
Loving Pisces
The Scorpio and Pisces connection is watery and soothing. There
is a very strong psychic and spiritual bond between these two
people: the Scorpio is capable of giving and receiving love in
a powerful way, and the Pisces woman will feel a deep empathy
for her partner. These two women are both very aware of the pain
annd sorrow in life, as well as in their joys.
The
problems that arise between them are minor, as both feel so much
warmth and compassion. The Scorpio woman is very concerned with
constant and unvarying love, and the Pisces woman is fluid and
adaptable and changes her feelings daily. The Scorpio woman may
feel that while this is tender and sympathetic it is not as dependable,
and the Pisces finds the intense tunnel vision of her Scorpio
partner negative and inhibiting.
The
Pisces manages to evade the more serious problems other signs
may have with the Scorpio woman.
This
combination often has an ability to communicate telepathically.
If the Scorpio lies, the Pisces woman will know very quickly.
Pisces also has a strong imagination for creative truth, and her
Scorpio partner will help her in this area. Scorpio will see through
the illusions the Piscean can weave. Overall, this is one of the
best combinations for two lesbian women, and the Pisces will be
very responsive to the Scorpio passion.
Scorpio
Loving Gemini
The Gemini/Scorpio combination brings together two people who
are so different from one another that it is hard to imagine how
they could create a workable relationship together. Yet this can
sometimes be a surprisingly good combination, if certain conditions
are met. As an air sign, Gemini is cool and detached. The Gemini
woman thinks before she feels. Scorpio, a water sign, experiences
life through profoundly felt emotions. Yet there is a side of
the Scorpio with which the Gemini woman can more easily relate.
Fed by the same intensity as her volcanic emotions, the Scorpio
woman's mind is powerful and incisive. Scorpio is driven by the
urge to strip things to their essence, both emotionally and mentally.
Scorpio's intellect, then, is a penetrating one. It has a billiance
and power that are fascinating to the Gemini woman. And the powerful
intellect of Scorpio admires Gemini's brilliant mind.
These
two women work well together in any enterprise demanding strong
mental skills. Gemini's tendency to gloss over the surface of
many subjects will be modified by her Scorpio partner's tendency
to delve deeply into any subject. And Scorpio's tendency to become
obsessional about things that are important to her will be modified
by the Gemini woman's flexibility and lighter touch. Since Gemini
is a dualistic sign, there is often cleavage between her conscious
and subconscious sides. The relationship with a Scorpio woman
would help her contact the deeper, hidden side of her nature.
She will be influenced to become a more complete person.
Of
course these two women have many differences to reconcile. Gemini
is restless, easily distracted and indecisive, and this will be
difficult for her Scorpio partner to accept as Scorpio is so self-contained
and single-minded. The Gemini woman may feel intimidated by her
partner's explosive emotions, and perplexed at the Scorpio's reserve.
The Gemini may feel that the Scorpio is lacking spontaneous communication
skills. If they can overcome these differences they will find
they have a lot to share on the mental level. Their relationship
may not be an easy one, but it will be fruitful for both partner's
growth. Sexually, these two have a lot to work out. Scorpio is
highly sexed and passionate, and Gemini is cool and dispassionate.
This relationship can work if the Scorpio woman can initiate her
partner into a deeper level of emotional experience than Gemini
is ordinarily prepared for. The fascination that the Gemini woman
has for her Scorpio partner's powerful mind may be the spur to
go into this experience.
Scorpio
Loving Taurus
The Taurus/Scorpio combination can be a tremendously strong and
positive one, OR a destructive one. Either way, it is a powerful
match of two strong and often uncompromisingly determined personalities.
Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs in the zodiac. As polar
opposites, they can mirror and complement each other, or continually
confront each other. Opposite signs usually have much in common,
and both the Scorpio and Taurus women have strong emotions which
they usually keep pent up behind a calm, self-contained mask.
Both women are intensely strong-willed, stubborn, and single-minded,
capable of die-hard loyalty and devotion to those they love, and
when they are hurt, both women are capable of remembering it for
years. Both have a strong physical vitality, a powerful sex drive,
and a tendency to be possessive and sometimes jealous in love
relationships. When these two women love one another, it is an
overwhelming, all-or-nothing proposition. The path of their love
may not be a smooth one, but the feelings between will run deep
and strong. The biggest problem between them is that when they
disagree, it is hard for them to find a meeting ground; neither
wants to budge from her position. While neither is prone to wear
her feelings on her sleeve, when tensions between them reach a
certain point, each is capable of unleashing a furious rage at
the other. The Scorpio women can live with such explosive episodes
more easily than the Taurus, as Scorpio can thrive on the experience
of tumultuous emotion. The Taurean cannot -- she needs a peaceful,
tranquil environment to be at her best.
As a result, she may put on an impassive wooden mask, which only
infuriates her Scorpio partner all the more. Only the powerful
feeling bond that can exist between these two women is enough
to help them weather such conflicts. Once these two give their
love, neither one is likely to walk away lightly. The differences
between these two women can be complementary. The Taurus woman
brings a shrewd, hard-nosed common sense to the relationship,
something the Scorpio woman needs as, although she is resourceful
and self-disciplined, she often approaches things in an excessively
emotional way. The Scorpio woman has strong intuitive, even psychic
gifts, but may have trouble handling the nitty-gritty details
of life. The Taurus will be expanded and enriched by the Scorpio's
mystical intensity, and will encounter deeper dimensions of experience
through her Scorpio partner, dimensions which will charge the
still, calm depths of her mind and can help them to transform
and regenerate each other. Actually, the impact of these two women
on one another is so powerful that both are transformed -- that
is, if they survive the encounter! Sexually, these two should
have absolutely no problem, as both have powerful sexual natures
and are highly sensitive to each other's emotions.
Scorpio
Loving Aries
The Aries/Scorpio combination brings together two very powerful
people. Both women can be very forceful and aggressive in their
own way. Both are passionately emotional, but express this emotion
differently. The Arie's expression is very direct and outspoken;
you always know where this woman stands. The Scorpio woman, however,
has powerful emotions but tends to keep them in. If the Aries
gets angry, she may remember it for years. Even though the Scorpio
woman is more reserved, she respects her Aries partner's outspoken
honesty. Both women can be daring and courageous, and each respects
this in the other.
This
relationship will need to have many areas of agreement if it is
to succeed, since if the two women disagree, their emotions could
erupt into a volcano. And although the Scorpio woman respects
her Aries partner's honesty, she would not be pleased at the Aries
tendency to be so open and frank with other people about matters
the Scorpio would like kept secret. Since Scorpio emotions run
so deep, it is hard for the Aries woman to predict what is and
what is not off-limits to talk about. The Scorpio woman is also
very sensitive (although she may not show it), and a thoughtless
remark from her Aries partner could wound her deeply, though she
might never let on. These two women will probably love each other
passionately, even though at times it might look more like a war
than a love relationship. If the Aries woman can learn more consideration
for her Scorpio partner's feelings, and if the Scorpio can curb
her tendency to be jealous and learn to trust the Aries, these
two could live in much more harmony.
Together
these two women can move mountains. They both have the ability
to go through devastating experiences and come out reborn. They
both have tremendous energy and vitality. The Scorpio woman can
help the Aries focus her energy in a creative direction. The home
they share will probably be immaculate and well-organized. Neither
will expect to spend most of their time together. Sexually, these
women should be very compatible, since they are both highly sexed
and passionate in their approach to lovemaking.
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