Libra Women:
Libra is an air sign, and is therefore concerned with the world of ideas and relating to people. Above all else, Libra looks for balance and harmony. Harmony in relationships is a key to the Libran temperament. In discordant situations a Libran can be miserable. The Libra woman has a highly refined intellectual and aesthetic sensitivity. She hates displays of intense emotionality and prefers a calm, detached, intellectual discussion of people's differences. Not that she doesn't enjoy controversy; she thrives on it. But the controversy must be carried on in a proper, self-controlled manner, for then she is in her element. She loves finding the balance between extremes and being the arbiter and diplomat.

The Libra woman often has a gentle and sweet demeanor that is appealing to many people. She loves to please people, sometimes to the point of compromising the truth. She tends to want to keep the peace at all costs. Beneath her pleasing exterior, however, the Libra woman is not as passive as she might appear. Libra is a high-energy, dynamic sign, and these women can be very opportunisitic in subtle ways. Usually Libran women get their way by indirect means. If they can reason with someone, well and good. If not, they will pursue their goals by other means.

Love and relationships are extremely important to a Libran. She works best in partnership. She sees her partner as her complementary opposite--as the mirror in which she can understand herself better by seeing herself reflected in the eyes of her lover. The Libra woman is always ready to bend in a relationship, but don't make the mistake of thinking you can trample on her. To her, that is not fair, and in her legalistic eyes fairness is the highest ideal. Controversies with her may revolve around her conception of what is fair and just and what is not. Because the Libra woman hates open confrontations she may tend to use "passive aggression," subtly provoking you to anger by not doing something rather than by actively doing. If the Libra woman corrects this tendency and takes responsibility for her own anger, she can develop a healthy relationship with her partner. She is highly motivated to do this, as a harmonious relationship is so essential to her well-being.

Libra Loving Scorpio

The Libra and Scorpio combination can be a high-powered low-tolerance connection. Libra, an air sign, likes to approach the relationship with mental objectivity, and Scorpio, a water sign, embraces all relationship experiences in an emotionally subjective force. Closeness and sharing are a priority, but their approaches are different. The Libra woman needs to feel she is a part of the relationship in a cooperative arrangement with her partner, and the Scorpio woman wants to submerge her identity with her partner and at the same time expand her personal power through the totality of their union. To the Libra, this kind of total union could be threatening, expecially as it is so filled with behavioural expectations. The Scorpio woman may be frustrated with the Libra woman's need to maintain her emotional identity, and she becomes impatient with the Libra's need to discuss their relationship status in verbal terms.

They can create a strong union if they can acknowledge their different ways of relating. Both women need and desire closeness in their relationships, as this creates a fulfillment that is something both need. The Libra woman must realize that her intellect sometimes isolates her Scorpio partner. She needs to open up herself to a deeper emotional level if she is to come to terms with her vulnerablitity. The Scorpio woman will learn to approach their relationship from a more objective perspective in order to relate to her mental needs more rationally. If these two women can compromise on this, their personal strength will become the stability of their relationship. Their loving exchanges can meet needs in the realm of deep self-knowledge.

They can share in warm and deep ways with strong verbal and emotional interchanges. Intimacy is an important and useful way of touching each other's hearts. Sexually the frequent and consistently good experience transforms both of them. There is, indeed, a transformational quality to their whole relationship.

Libra Loving Cancer

The Cancer/Libra combination can be a harmonious one, but there may be difficulties because both women are so sensitive in different ways. Watery Cancer is dominated by her emotions, while airy Libra needs to take a completely objective standpoint to be comfortable. Both women are acutely aware of other people and their needs. Both are also warm and gentle in their manner, and should be able on that account to feel very comfortable with each other. Cancer wants to soothe and care for others with emotional empathy; Libra wants to create harmony by clear and open discussion of differences and by making reasonable compromises.

A great deal of time these two women get along beautifully, especially given the fact that each is so concerned about the other's comfort. The problem that can arise is that they are both almost too concerned. Both these women are very finely strung, but the string is very taut. Each is aware of the slightest imbalance and discord affects them almost physically. The Cancer woman has a hard time understanding the Libran's need to reach verbal agreement, as if that solved the problem; the Libran hates intense emotional displays and will do anything to avoid them. The Cancer sense the Libra is uncomfortable with her strong emotions, and therefore tries to inhibit them. In short, the two can be walking on eggs around each other. Both are kind, gentle women, and hate discord, and yet they can slowly drive each other crazy.

That is one side of the picture. Obviously, there is still a lot of ground for agreement between these two women, and this can help them overcome their problems. Since they both need love and affection so much they will be highly motivated to find harmony with each other. The Cancer woman can learn to appreciate the objective mental perspective her Libra partner can offer her often confused emotional feelings, and the Libra can learn to broaden her understanding of life to a deeper emotional level through her Cancer partner. Each woman has much to offer the other. Sexually, these two women can be very compatible as each is very concerned with pleasing her partner, and both are warmly responsive in love.

Libra Loving Libra

The Libra/Libra combination can be a harmonious and balanced one. Problems usually arise because there is a strong mirror effect between them. These two women are air signs concerned with partnerships and equality, and should be able to discuss their differences in an equal and objectively comprehensive way. As the sign of the balance, these women are adept at seeing both sides of an issue. Appreciation is very strong in this combination, perspectives will be acknowledged even when there is disagreement, and cooperation and compromise are very strong in this combination, perspectives will be acknowledged even when there is disagreement, and cooperation and compromise are very important to them as Libras. They will go out of their way to resolve challenges and problems, and agreements can be reached between them through verbal exchange.

When problems do arise in this relationship, they tend to be concerned with the difficulties each has in taking the initiative and making final commitments. Each woman wants to be sure her partner is happy and comfortable with whatever she does, and both may go to extremes in holding back her own ideas for fear of conflict. Both women hate discord and want happiness and tranquility at any cost. For this reason resentment can be suppressed, creating tension between them. To their women friends they may appear to argue a lot, but actually they enjoy discussion. If one woman takes a position the other may feel she has to take the opposite position to balance. These women love to talk instead of taking action.

They easily resolve major differences and as a matter of protocal they forgive quickly and apologize just as quickly. An environment of intelligence and objective discussion will prevail. These two women love to discuss the status of their relationship over and over again. They enjoy activities together and love sharing all experiences. They feel that they work better together, and would rather do so. There is a natural union between them in a crowd or in different rooms of the house, where they seldom take space from each other. Sexually they are very close, and romance and musical foreplay precede any intimacy.

Libra Loving Aquarius

The combination of Libra and Aquarius is karmic. Both Libra and Aquarius are air signs, concerned with finding and proving the truth through expanding their mental outlook on life and utilizing open verbal discussions. The Libra woman continually seeks balance and clarity through verbal accord; the Aquarius woman needs to find an objective and detached understanding of her role in the relationship. She is interested in the whole issue of living, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. She seeks understanding with her partner and needs to know how they fit together. The mental rapport is very strong between these two, and they will both tend to discuss their differences and character defects dispassionately and in the open. When differences arise between them, they are usually minor. They are both able to take an objective and detached perspective. However, there are subtle differences in the way they approach these differences. The Libra needs to find truth through seeing both sides of an issue, and becomes very elastic mentally in this partnership. The Aquarian tends to take one invariant position, which she trusts and feels is right. Once she takes this position she can hold to it firmly and even dogmatically. The Libra woman may see her Aquarian partner as being rigid and closed to other points of view, and the Aquarian woman may feel her Libra partner changes too readily with the circumstances, and is too concerned with people-pleasing.

Libra women desire continual interaction, and partnership is very important to them. The Aquarian woman is much more independent and needs a lot of space, and may need to be away from her partner a lot. The Libra woman may interpret this as rejection. In spite of these challenges, these two are very similar in their need to establish agreement through open and honest discussion. They will reach harmony and balance when honesty is achieved, and this issue is the most important issue in both their lives. Sexually, this combination enjoys each other's uniqueness and they talk a lot during sex.

Cancer Loving Libra

The Cancer/Libra combination can be a harmonious one, but there may be difficulties because both women are so sensitive in different ways. Watery Cancer is dominated by her emotions, while airy Libra needs to take a completely objective standpoint to be comfortable. Both women are acutely aware of other people and their needs. Both are also warm and gentle in their manner, and should be able on that account to feel very comfortable with each other. Cancer wants to soothe and care for others with emotional empathy; Libra wants to create harmony by clear and open discussion of differences and by making reasonable compromises.

A great deal of time these two women get along beautifully, especially given the fact that each is so concerned about the other's comfort. The problem that can arise is that they are both almost too concerned. Both these women are very finely strung, but the string is very taut. Each is aware of the slightest imbalance and discord affects them almost physically. The Cancer woman has a hard time understanding the Libran's need to reach verbal agreement, as if that solved the problem; the Libran hates intense emotional displays and will do anything to avoid them. The Cancer sense the Libra is uncomfortable with her strong emotions, and therefore tries to inhibit them. In short, the two can be walking on eggs around each other. Both are kind, gentle women, and hate discord, and yet they can slowly drive each other crazy.

That is one side of the picture. Obviously, there is still a lot of ground for agreement between these two women, and this can help them overcome their problems. Since they both need love and affection so much they will be highly motivated to find harmony with each other. The Cancer woman can learn to appreciate the objective mental perspective her Libra partner can offer her often confused emotional feelings, and the Libra can learn to broaden her understanding of life to a deeper emotional level through her Cancer partner. Each woman has much to offer the other. Sexually, these two women can be very compatible as each is very concerned with pleasing her partner, and both are warmly responsive in love.


Libra Loving Virgo

The Libra/Virgo combination is an interesting match, even though the two women are very different. Virgo is an earth sign concerned with the open exchange of ideas and balance. The Virgo woman approaches life from the point of view of detail and perfection; the Libra woman is more interested in the balance of parts within a whole and she becomes impatient with the Virgo's concern with detail.

The main reason why these two women disagree is around their approaches to other people's needs. The Virgo woman is concerned about being of service in a structured environment and a loyal way. The Libra woman is concerned about the harmony and ease among women, and wants to please others, and not necessarily to do what is "right" or expected. To the Virgo woman the Libra may appear to compromise too much in order to please, and Virgo may feel she can't always completely trust the Libran's motives. To the Libra woman, her Virgo partner may seem overly obsessed with doing the right thing, without concern for creating a harmonious flow.

There are differences, but the similarities are especially plentiful. Both women are extremely concerned about the comfort of others and are willing to go to any length to take another's needs into consideration. These women will be very concerned about the well-being of others. The Virgo woman can learn to be more tolerant and open to others through her Libra partner, and the Libra woman can learn more attention to specifics and to be more honest and direct.

Sexually, these two may need to trust each other's needs more before they can feel open to sharing their own personalities. The Virgo woman must learn not to mistake Libra's approach and to stay warm and openly loving.


Libra Loving Capricorn

The Capricorn/Libra connection brings a union of the senses. Libra is an air sign whose concern is with taking a detached and balanced view in a relationship; Capricorn is an earth sign, concerned with the stability and solid achievements experienced in relationships, and trust and closeness are her markers. The Libra woman tends to be impatient with her Capricorn lover, because of the issue of proof: the Libra needs the freedom to explore new ways of being without regard for declarations of constant "I love you," and the Capricorn woman has a strong will but is more concerned with security and self-discipline than anything else. She may find that sometimes the Libra woman is unable to give commitments. Her idealism can get in the way of long-term/short-term relating.

In spite of these callenges, these women have a deep understanding. There is a sense of structure and fitness in each of them, and they both can be very concerned with social and emotional appropriateness. Carried too far, they can be conventional and overly committed instead of focusing first on themselves. The Libra woman appreciates the organizational ability and determination of the Capricorn woman, and has a very real respect for the Capricorn's strength of character and commitment, even though at times she may find her partner to be concerned with mundane matters. The Capricorn appreciates the clear and insightful mentality of her Libra partner. The Libra woman is not inclined to be dishonest or to lie. She may become impatient, however, with the Libra's tendency to resolve differences into the wee hours of the morning and with words rather than actions.

Both these women can be telepathic, especially with each other. The comfort that results from this kind of contact also carries into their sexual lives. Togetherness is important.

Libra Loving Leo

The Libra/Leo combination usually flows very smoothly. Leo is a fire sign and libra is an air sign; air and fire support and expand each other. The Leo woman will be able to communicate easily with her Libra partner: Leo is open and generous and Libra is cooperative and diplomatic. These two women will also stimulate each other's artistic creativity. The Leo woman is very concerned with creative expression and the Libra woman has a highly refined esthetic sensitivity. These two women will enjoy going to gatherings and will also make superb hostesses.

The problems that arise between these two are usually minor ones and tend to be concerned with the Leo's strong ego versus the Libra's sensitivity to others. The Leo woman is very warm and friendly, but she also tends to be a stubborn individual. When she is convinced she is right about something she can be deaf to any other points of view. The Libran woman is almost too concerned with other people's needs and comfort; cooperation and harmony are the most important things to her. The Libran may find that her Leo partner's self-centered tendencies are hard to deal with, and the Leo may sometimes feel that her Libran partner compromises too easily and is too concerned with pleasing others. She wants the Libra to give full support to the Leo's convictions.

Another related problem is the Leo's tendency to be bluntly outspoken in her opinions, as well as her tendency to lose her temper when seriously crossed. This upsets her Libra partner because the Libran needs peace and harmony around her at all times. To the Libra, the Leo may seem selfish and insensitive when the Leo is simply being honest and up front, and doesn't mean to offend others.

These two women should get along relatively easily and with harmony in spite of some differences in basic natures. Both women enjoy warm, friendly relations with others, and each appreciates the other's love of beauty. They will like to have the finer things of life around them, and together will create a beautiful and comfortable home that will be ideal for entertaining. They will attract creative and artistic people into their lives. The Leo woman can help her Libra partner to take a stronger, more outspoken stand on issues, and the Libra woman will help her Leo partner be more sensitive to and tactful about other people's needs.

Both are warm and romantic people and these two women should have a compatible sexual relationship and enjoy open communication.


Libra Loving Sagittarius

The Sagittarius/Libra connection is a harmonious one. Libra, an air sign, is concerned with balance and an equal connection with her lover; Sagittarius, a fire sign, seeks the expansion of herself and her individuality with in the realm of the relationship by pursuing the ways of relating with her partner using new thought forms. Air and fire expand each other, and these two women will enjoy their communication and expand their views of relating. They both believe in justice and fairness strongly, and each will appreciate the other's concern with the more womanly point of view.

Although there is a large common ground, their approach to relating is different. The Libra woman is in love with an ideal of love and tries to adjust to this belief; the Sagittarian woman can become self-righteous, and directness is a part of her communication array. To the Libra woman, tact and timing are very important, and she may find her Sagittarian partner's tactlessness and blunt honesty hard to deal with.

The Sagittarian doesn't tolerate hypocrisy very well, and she may see her Libra partner exhibiting diplomatic games and compromising her truths for balance. When Sagittarius sees this, her tendency is to blow and express her opinion vigorously. The sensitive Libra will then retreat.

In spite of these differences, these women share many playful times. Both enjoy playing athletic and mental games. The Libra woman finds her Sagittarian partner a stimulating companion sexually, one who keeps her open to new possiblities for intimacy; the Sagittarian woman will appreciate her Libra partner's ability to bring out the honesty of reality on a physical level. She will learn new skills in experiencing her love other than assuming and making pre-judgements.

Their enjoyment of allowing and giving each other freedom is naturally understood.


Libra Loving Pisces

The Libra/Pisces combination works out very well. Both women are naturally sensitive and warm. Libra, an air sign, takes a balanced objective and intellectual approach to life, and Pisces, a water sign, feels an emotional kinship in this relationship, as she is ruled by her feeling. These two women can relate very well together because each is very sensitive and concerned about the other's feelings. The Libra will be concerned with resolving discord through open communication, and the Pisces is sensitive to her partner's emotions and will also want to keep the peace. Both women are very romantic, warm, and highly artistic.

When problems arise in this relationship, it is generally because of the different ways they view life. The Libra woman needs objectivity and a mental approach, but her Pisces partner picks up on her wavelength through her emotions and may have trouble verbalizing her feelings. The Libra woman will want to bring out problems into the open and discuss them rationally, and will expect the Pisces woman to put her feelings into words. She may feel frustrated when the Pisces woman can't express her feelings in words, and the Pisces woman may feel hurt when her Libran partner distances herself in order to be objective. The Pisces woman can become emotionally dependent on the Libran, but have difficulty expressing her needs clearly. She may have difficulty expressing resentment, and at the same time have trouble with conflict, especially if it is filled with a lot of intense emotion.

These two women, in spite of these challenges, should be able to create a harmonious relationship. Both women are highly sexual and have very refined tastes, and disharmony will cut off their sexual feelings toward each other. Both women are very idealistic, and they may find themselves wanting to retreat together a lot. Consideration and tenderness are strong between them.

Libra Loving Gemini

The Libra/Gemini combination is generally a harmonious one. Both signs are air signs, so these women share a common concern with mental objectivity and the free and open exchange of ideas. Both women try to establish harmony by discussing things from a lofty and intellectual point of view. Both women will enjoy the clear, open communication that takes place between them. The Gemini brings the ability to clearly categorize and analyze whatever is going on. The Libra brings a delicate sensitivity to the balance between two people, and a well-developed sense of how to compromise and take the other person's point of view into consideration.

These two women are always able to talk together effectively. Neither enjoys strong displays of emotion and each feels most comfortable when an atmosphere of friendly but also cool objectivity prevails. The problems that arise between them should be fairly easy to resolve. Both women are eager to discuss their differences freely and find a common ground. When these two do disagree, their problem usually stems from the subtle way these two signs differ. The Gemini woman, with her sharp, incisive, analytical mind, tends to enjoy taking things apart in a cool, detached way. To the sensitive Libran with her warmth and sympathy for another person's position, the approach of the Gemini may seem a little cold-blooded. She may feel that the Gemini woman fails to take the rational into consideration in her approach to people and situations. The Gemini sometimes finds her Libra partner too wrapped up in concerns about what other people think and feel, rather than with what is. She may feel that the Libran sometimes allows her desire to please to compromise her reaction to situations.

Obviously, each woman has much to offer the other. The Gemini can give her Libra partner a clear analysis of things, unhampered by other people's needs and demands. The Libra can give her Gemini partner a more emotionally whole sense of life and people. The Gemini woman will be influenced to think less like a computer and more like a sensitive human being. Sexually, these two should be very compatible as they both value mind-to-mind rapport above all else and will be able to discuss their deeper feelings freely.

Libra Loving Taurus

The Taurus/Libra combination can be a very harmonius one, especially when certain minor differences are overcome. Earthy Taurus loves stability and comfort. Libra, an air sign, needs plenty of mental stimulation, but also shares the Taurus' need for peace and tranquility. Both women love beauty and harmony, and the home they share will be both comfortable and aesthetically pleasing. Both find discord and emotionally charged arguments distasteful and try to avoid situations that produce them. The Libra woman will add her finely-tuned ability to clarify situations using her mind to the durable and practical skills of her Taurus partner. The Taurus woman will help her Libra partner bring her idealistic concepts down to earth and make them useful in everyday life.

These two women are very different from one another, but for the most part their differences should add to the relationship, and not detract from it. Although the Libra woman loves peace, she also tends to get restless as she ceaselessly searches to find her balance. She is always trying to establish harmony in her relationships and is always a little dissatisfied as each situation falls short of her ideal. What happens in all her relationships is vitally important to her well-being, and discord with another person can be devastating to her. The Taurus woman, on the contrary, tends to be much more self-contained, but she is simply too strong in her convictions of where she stands to be seriously knocked off her center by another person's needs. From the Taurus woman's point of view, the Libran is just too concerned with what other people think. To the Libra woman, however, her Taurus partner may at times seem a little too preoccupied with herself, and too stubborn. This difference could be the source of misunderstanding between them OR the source of creative learning for both of them.

Another problem may arise when the restless Libra woman wants to go out and socialize more than her Taurus partner. The Taurus woman may sometimes feel a little insecure with the Libran's capacity to relate with so many people -- both close friends and acquaintances -- so warmly. The Taurus woman should realize that this has nothing to do with romance, the Libran just enjoys people. Actually, the Libra woman, more than all else, wants to do things with her partner, she loves togetherness and usually hates to go out alone. If these two can deal with these relatively minor problems, they should do very well together. Sexually, they are very compatible, as both women are sensitive, sensuous, and warmly responsive to affection.

Libra Loving Aries

The Aries/Libra combination can either be completely ideal or a disaster. These two signs are on opposite sides of the zodiac, and can either complement each other or conflict with each other. Aries is the sign of the self and acting self-reliantly. Libra is the sign of awareness of the other person's point of view and of partnerships. The Aries woman can supply what her Libra partner lacks, and vice versa. When these women work harmoniously together they are like mirrors. Aries emphasizes self-awareness, Libra brings out the awareness, Libra brings out the awareness of another person's needs. The Libra woman helps balance her Aries partner's energy and initiative. She loves reflecting back this energy in the form of appreciation. At the same time, the Aries woman sometimes gets impatient with the Libran's need to keep everyone happy. And sometimes it seems to the Libra woman that the Aries is being inconsiderate just to be contrary.

Together these two women will attract many people to them. These two should spark each other's creativity, especially in the realm of the arts. The Libran helps refine the undisciplined but creative power of Aries energy. And when these two are not arguing (which may be often) they can carry on a flow of stimulating conversation. Sexually, these two should be very compatible, since the Libran woman is a highly responsive partner to the ardent nature of the Aries woman.