Gemini Women:

Gemini is an air sign, and is highly versatile and communicative. The Gemini woman is intensely interested in the world around her. She is alert to the shifting changes in her environment and wants to understand why things work the way they do. She is insatiably curious. She feeds on exchanging ideas with others, and for this reason often has a preference of not being alone. The Gemini woman usually has many varied interests and talents.. Her main opportunity is focusing her attention on one interest at a time. If she does not focus, she will become scattered and easily distracted.

She does enjoy solitude, but is usually never alone for long. She generally has many friends and when they are away she writes and telephones them frequently. Whe she is alone she can become absorbed in reading and writing. The byword for Gemini is processing ideas. She prefers people for intellectual contact, and only secondarily for emotional companionship. Exchanging ideas is one way that she develops an understanding of herself and who she is.

The Gemini woman has a tremendous ability to understand herself using her mind as a door to reality. She makes herself open to people who ask questions, and she loves to ask questions herself. Even though she needs people, the Gemini woman needs a great deal of freedom. She must explore new ideas and experiment with new ways of being. To feel stimulated, she usually needs many new friends, not just a few old ones.

If you love a Gemini woman, always be prepared for the unpredictable. She hates to be challenged by a dull routine. She can be wonderfully stimulating as a partner who will always bring a new and fresh perspective to your relationship. If you are a freedom-thinking woman yourself, this can be a fulfilling partnership. If security and monogamy are more important to you, then a relationship with a Gemini woman can be trying and difficult.

Love can be a special experience for a Gemini woman since she needs the openness of the heart to balance her mental brilliance. By the same token, being alone can also be valuable even though it may be difficult for her. She needs to learn in a relationship to nourish her own inner spiritual life in order to balance her active outer life.

Gemini Loving Scorpio

The Gemini/Scorpio combination brings together two people who are so different from one another that it is hard to imagine how they could create a workable relationship together. Yet this can sometimes be a surprisingly good combination, if certain conditions are met. As an air sign, Gemini is cool and detached. The Gemini woman thinks before she feels. Scorpio, a water sign, experiences life through profoundly felt emotions. Yet there is a side of the Scorpio with which the Gemini woman can more easily relate. Fed by the same intensity as her volcanic emotions, the Scorpio woman's mind is powerful and incisive. Scorpio is driven by the urge to strip things to their essence, both emotionally and mentally. Scorpio's intellect, then, is a penetrating one. It has a billiance and power that are fascinating to the Gemini woman. And the powerful intellect of Scorpio admires Gemini's brilliant mind.

These two women work well together in any enterprise demanding strong mental skills. Gemini's tendency to gloss over the surface of many subjects will be modified by her Scorpio partner's tendency to delve deeply into any subject. And Scorpio's tendency to become obsessional about things that are important to her will be modified by the Gemini woman's flexibility and lighter touch. Since Gemini is a dualistic sign, there is often cleavage between her conscious and subconscious sides. The relationship with a Scorpio woman would help her contact the deeper, hidden side of her nature. She will be influenced to become a more complete person.

Of course these two women have many differences to reconcile. Gemini is restless, easily distracted and indecisive, and this will be difficult for her Scorpio partner to accept as Scorpio is so self-contained and single-minded. The Gemini woman may feel intimidated by her partner's explosive emotions, and perplexed at the Scorpio's reserve. The Gemini may feel that the Scorpio is lacking spontaneous communication skills. If they can overcome these differences they will find they have a lot to share on the mental level. Their relationship may not be an easy one, but it will be fruitful for both partner's growth. Sexually, these two have a lot to work out. Scorpio is highly sexed and passionate, and Gemini is cool and dispassionate. This relationship can work if the Scorpio woman can initiate her partner into a deeper level of emotional experience than Gemini is ordinarily prepared for. The fascination that the Gemini woman has for her Scorpio partner's powerful mind may be the spur to go into this experience.

Gemini Loving Libra

The Gemini/Libra combination is generally a harmonious one. Both signs are air signs, so these women share a common concern with mental objectivity and the free and open exchange of ideas. Both women try to establish harmony by discussing things from a lofty and intellectual point of view. Both women will enjoy the clear, open communication that takes place between them. The Gemini brings the ability to clearly categorize and analyze whatever is going on. The Libra brings a delicate sensitivity to the balance between two people, and a well-developed sense of how to compromise and take the other person's point of view into consideration.

These two women are always able to talk together effectively. Neither enjoys strong displays of emotion and each feels most comfortable when an atmosphere of friendly but also cool objectivity prevails. The problems that arise between them should be fairly easy to resolve. Both women are eager to discuss their differences freely and find a common ground. When these two do disagree, their problem usually stems from the subtle way these two signs differ. The Gemini woman, with her sharp, incisive, analytical mind, tends to enjoy taking things apart in a cool, detached way. To the sensitive Libran with her warmth and sympathy for another person's position, the approach of the Gemini may seem a little cold-blooded. She may feel that the Gemini woman fails to take the rational into consideration in her approach to people and situations. The Gemini sometimes finds her Libra partner too wrapped up in concerns about what other people think and feel, rather than with what is. She may feel that the Libran sometimes allows her desire to please to compromise her reaction to situations.

Obviously, each woman has much to offer the other. The Gemini can give her Libra partner a clear analysis of things, unhampered by other people's needs and demands. The Libra can give her Gemini partner a more emotionally whole sense of life and people. The Gemini woman will be influenced to think less like a computer and more like a sensitive human being. Sexually, these two should be very compatible as they both value mind-to-mind rapport above all else and will be able to discuss their deeper feelings freely.

Gemini Loving Aquarius

The Gemini/Aquarius combination is usually a very harmonious one. Both Gemini and Aquarius are air signs and they enjoy spending a great deal of time exchanging ideas with each other. Both must have the freedom to explore new frontiers of the mind, and both hate being tied to a mundane routine. Each of these women will appreciate this characteristic in the other. They will spend hours together discussing the philosophical implications for this idea or that. Both of them enjoy people, and they will have many friends. Together they will reinforce each other's gregarious tendencies. They will probably enjoy joining many social and idealistic organizations together.

These two women get along beautifully on the intellectual level, but sometimes they may have problems because neither one is easily in touch with her inner personal feelings. They each take a cool and detached view of life, and both like to theorize about things, but they may have trouble with raw feelings that are difficult to categorize and pigeonhole. Another problem may stem from the fact that Aquarian women are more independent loners than Gemini women, and during certain periods the Aquarian will want to be alone. The Gemini woman hates to be alone, and finds her Aquarian partner aloof and out of reach during these times. The Aquarian may find her Gemini partner's indecisive and vacillatory ways hard to deal with, as once the Aquarian formulates some idea of what she wants to do, she will stick to it tenaciously. When they do disagree, the Gemini may feel her Aquarian parner takes too rigid and dogmatic a stance, while the Aquarian woman may feel exasperated because she can never count on where the Gemini will stand on anything.

But basically these are minor problems. Mental rapport is so important to both these women that they will, ultimately, find ways of resolving their differences. Both are most comfortable when an atmosphere of open and calm reason prevails. At their best, the Gemini helps her Aquarian partner stay open to new perceptions and experiment with new ways to do things. The Aquarian woman helps her partner to find enduring principles that can keep her centered through changing circumstances. Sexually, these two women should be well matched because they communicate so well verbally and are able to talk about their sexual needs.

Gemini Loving Cancer

The Gemini/Cancer combination brings together two very different women, but often works out surprisingly well. Gemini, an air sign, loves the freedom to shift with each changing breeze, forever seeking new ideas, new perceptions, new horizons. Cancer, a water sign, always seeks the emotional security that stems from deep rootedness in life. Restless Gemini craves freedom and is rootless; Cancer needs to build a home base, a source of emotional as well as physical nourishment. How can these two women meet half way?

Signs immediately adjacent to each other in the zodiac--such as Gemini and Cancer-- often share some common characteristics. Although the Gemini woman tends to take a detached standpoint and the Cancer woman an emotional one, they share a concern with their immediate gut-level perceptions. Both tend to relate all their experience to how it feels to them, as opposed to some abstract comprehensive system. This subjective focus is the key to their surprising rapport. In a sense, the Gemini woman is seeking a rooted relatedness to life as she processes all her thought and perceptions about the world around her. The Cancer woman can often help her find the deeper emotional nourishment that the Gemini really needs to complete herself. At the same time, the Gemini can offer her Cancer partner a cooler, more detached perspective, one that can help clarify intense Cancerian emotions. Cancer's emotionality is sometimes excessive; her Gemini partner can help her use her intellect to balance this tendency.

For this reason it is possible for these two women to have a successful relationship. The Cancer woman loves to spend a lot of time with her lover; the Gemini loves to have another to act as her mirror. Of course, their differences can make for problems. The Cancer woman is strongly focused in her home; the Gemini woman craves a lot of excitement outside the home. The Cancer woman tends to want a few close friends (including her partner); the Gemini loves to meet new people, and may get bored with the companionship of just a few people. The Cancer woman needs a lot of emotional support and solicitous attention, and her Gemini partner may have trouble empathizing with her. But with a little work these two can overcome these problems. Sexually, these two women are not ideally matched. The Cancer woman needs the expression of much more emotional tenderness than the Gemini is prone to give. If the Cancer woman can learn to talk about her emotional needs with her Gemini partner, their sexual relationship can improve.

Gemini Loving Virgo

The Gemini/Virgo combination usually works out well in spite of significant differences between the two women. Gemini, an air sign, loves to float off into the world of ideas. Virgo, an earth sign, also has a keen intellect, but applies it in a more grounded way. Gemini loves to gather interesting new ideas from far and wide; Virgo likes to refine and analyze different ideas and select those that will be most useful. Gemini is playful and carefree, going off in all directions at once if possible. Virgo is serious, conscientious, and self-disciplined. How, then, is it possible for these two women to enjoy a harmonious relationship, as they often do?

The reason these two women often do so well together is because each one supplies something the other lacks. Both women are sensitive and have the ability to cooly appraise situations with a sharp eye for details. But the Gemini woman expands her Virgo partner's focus to take in new and surprising vistas. And the Virgo woman helps her Gemini partner to get her feet on the ground and be more discriminating about which ideas she will take up. The Virgo woman can show her Gemini partner ways of being more disciplined. Together these women can communicate with each other remarkably well. They love to talk about situations, perceptions, and inner feelings together. Each woman feels that the other brings a constructive view on what she is experiencing. On a day-to-day basis, these women learn a lot from each other.

Problems between these two will arise, of course. The Gemini woman may find the Virgo's fixation on duty and perfection irksome at times. And the Virgo woman will look askance at the Gemini woman's nonchalance in the face of serious responsibilities of life. But even with these pronounced differences in style, these two women have much to offer each other once they work through these difficulties. Sexually, these two women can be very compatible, as they both approach love from a mental point of view, and both need to talk about and analyze their feelings.

Gemini Loving Capricorn

The Gemini/Capricorn combination can work fairly well, but there are some big differences to be overcome. Gemini, an air sign, loves collecting, analyzing, and discussing ideas for their own sake; the other responsibilities of life will have to take a second place. Capricorn, an earth sign, also has a strong intellect, but the most important thing in life to her is concrete, practical achievement and taking on responsibility. The Gemini woman needs the freedom to experience new things and explore new ideas. The Capricorn woman is happiest when she has serious, responsible work to do. She can enjoy speculations on the philosophical meaning of life, but she also wants to bring these ideas down to earth and find some practical use for them.

Both women can be adept at categorizing and organizing information. They both enjoy finding the basic structure underlying things. For this reason, they can relate well together in spite of their differences. The Gemini will appreciate the clarity and organizing power of her Capricorn's mind. The Capricorn woman admires the ability of her Gemini partner to analyze and categorize things. This appeals to the Capricorn's orderly mind. These two women, then, will do best when they are relating to each other on an intellectual level.

In emotional matters there may be more to work out. The Gemini woman wants a light touch when it comes to a relationship; she needs a lot of stimulation and hates to feel hemmed in by demands and obligations. The Capricorn woman needs steady constant support from her partner, and needs security and wants to be able to count on her partner to be there. To the Gemini woman, the Capricorn may seem too serious and demanding. And to the Capricorn woman, the Gemini may seem too nonchalant and undependable. If this relationship is to work, both will need to make concessions.

If the Capricorn woman can learn to play and loosen up, and if the Gemini woman can learn to be more consistent and take more responsibility, this relationship has some chance of success. The Gemini can become grounded by her partner and the Capricorn can open up her mind to new experiences. Sexually, these two women may need some work, as the Capricorn must have a sense of stability to feel loved.

Gemini Loving Leo

The Gemini/Leo combination brings together two lively and creative individuals. In general, this match works out well, although there are some things that may need work. Gemini, an air sign, is stimulated and inspired by the fiery Leo. The Leo will be expanded by her Gemini partner, especially in the realm of ideas and the arts. These two women both enjoy an active social life and the stimulation of intelligent people. Gemini is concerned with mental exploration; Leo is concerned with creative self-expression. Together these two can be a talented team, especially if they are involved with some aspect of the arts in writing.

The Leo woman finds her Gemini partner an exciting companion, and Gemini enjoys the Leo's creative flair. But these two women are also very different from one another and this can sometimes cause problems. The Leo woman is ruled by passionate emotions, and she tends to think she is "right". She has strongly-felt convictions which she REFUSES to compromise. The Gemini woman, on the other hand, is highly adaptable; she tends to appraise life from a cool, detached standpoint. The Gemini woman may find her Leo partner's strong-willed ways overbearing. She may also feel that the Leo reacts to things much too emotionally. If the Leo tries to coerce her, the Gemini may decide to leave. At the same time the Leo woman may feel that lack of Gemini's ardor, and may feel hurt if the Gemini does not suppoort her in things the Leo feels with great emotional intensity. The Leo woman may also get exasperated with the Gemini indecisive ways. Once the Leo makes up her mind about something she will stick by it against all opposition.

In spite of these differences in personal style, these two women have much in common. If the Gemini woman can learn to appreciate her Leo partner's emotional intensity and determination, and the Leo can appreciate the Geminni's flexibility and objectivity, these two women can work together very creatively. Sexually, some work may be needed as the Leo needs to feel a strong response to her emotional intensity, whereas the Gemini takes a cooler mental approach to lovemaking.

Gemini Loving Sagittarius

The Gemini/Sagittarius combination is usually a great match. Both women are lively, restless individuals who will find each other exciting, stimulating companions. Gemini and Sagittarius are opposite signs in the zodiac, and as such the two signs mirror each other while bringing out opposite and complementary sides of experience. Both Gemini and Sagittarius constantly seek to expand their view of life by using their intellect. Both women are adventurous explorers in the realm of the mind. Neither is content to accept life without question. Each woman can appreciate this quality in her partner, and these two women will spark each other's minds, stimulating new perceptions, new ideas, and new insights. Gemini is acutely sensitive to all the multitude of perceptions; she loves to analyze and categorize all these impressions to make a coherent picture of her world. Sagittarius is a far-seeing thinker; she thinks in wide-ranging comprehensive terms. Gemini's mind is like a microscope, picking out the tiny details of the picture; Sagittarius' mind is like a telescope, magnifying distant vision and sweeping the broad range of knowledge. Together these two women can think better than either would be able to alone.

These two women can be very helpful to one another. Sagittarius often has her sights set on such long-distance views that she stumbles over her own feet. Her Gemini partner can help her to pay more attention to what is immediately around her and show her that she can learn a lot by simply observing her own perceptions. The Gemini woman's mentality will be expanded as her Sagittarian partner opens up the vistas of her long-range vision to her.

Problems between these two women are generally minor. When they do arise, they are fairly easily resolved since both women are highly flexible and adaptable, and believe in talking about their differences openly. Their difficulties mainly arise over the fact that Sagittarius likes to do things alone more than Geminis do. Sagittarius is much more independent than Gemini and enjoys venturing off by herself from time to time. The Sagittarian hot temper is sometimes hard for the cooler, more dispassionate Gemini to handle. Except for these differences these two women have so much in common that their differences should be easy to resolve. Sexually, these two women can be very compatible especially as sharing feelings and perceptions openly is so important to each of them.

Gemini Loving Pisces

Gemini/Pisces combinations bring together two very different women, yet they often work out very well. Gemini, an air sign, tends to approach life from a detached, objective standpoint. Pisces, a water sign, approaches life primarily through emotions and intuition. The Gemini woman analyzes everything around her. The Pisces woman feels things out. Her emotions, are often so strong that they drown out her reason. Obviously, these two women are very different from one another.

In spite of this, these women have some traits in common. They are both extremely sensitive to other people and their immediate environment. Neither has a well-defined identity, but instead they absorb the environmental influences around them. For this reason, these two women can have a strong psychic rapport with each other. Each is instinctively aware of the other's sensitivity, and so they can empathize with each other readily. The Gemini woman will appreciate the warmth and sympathy of the Pisces woman; the Pisces will give the Gemini the emotional nourishment she may not realize she was missing. The Gemini woman can give her Pisces partner a clearer, more objective view on the Pisces' often confused emotionality. Both women enjoy playfulness and humor and together they will appreciate life's little absurdities. The Pisces woman will also give her partner a profounder awareness of life beyond the conscious, rational mind.

Of course there will be problems. At times the Gemini woman will hurt the feelings of her sensitive Pisces parner without meaning to. Gemini sees things cooly and matter-of-factly. The Pisces woman has feelings that can be hard to fathom. The Pisces woman will also have needs for emotional reassurance which her Gemini partner may find difficult to meet. The Gemini woman may also become frustrated at times by her partner's difficulty in articulating her feelings clearly -- Gemini wants so much to talk about problems and resolve them with the use of reason. Each woman will have to stretch herself to understand the other, but ultimately they will be richly rewarded if they make the effort. Sexually, a compatible relationship is possible between them, especially if the Gemini woman makes an effort to understand Pisce's emotional needs.

Gemini Loving Gemini

The Gemini/Gemini combination generally works almost uncannily well. Of course, it brings together two women with many similarities in temperament, as Gemini is the sign of the twins and at best these two women are like twin souls, one mirroring the thoughts and feelings of the other. Often even one Gemini alone is like many people in one body, and two Gemini proliferate the possibilities even further. Each women can play the role as a projection of one of her partner's other selves. Because of the implicit duality of the Gemini personality, two Gemini together have more likelihood than one of becoming a whole person. These two women will spend endless hours bouncing about all kinds of exciting ideas, comparing notes, and generally delving into all the fascinating aspects of life and the universe. Although both are lovers of independence and freedom, they will naturally tend to spend a great deal of time together and may sometimes appear inseparable to an outside observer.

The main problem in this relationship is that these two women have a hard time coming to a decision about anything. One Gemini can be vacillatory and indecisive, two compound the problem tenfold. Gemini is always aware of myriad possibilities to choose from, and these possibilities are multiplied when these two women get together. Not only that, but each woman can come up with hundreds of pros and cons for any idea presented. These two women may seem to argue vigorously at times, but actually it is usually not a heated affair. Arguing is for them just another tool to uncover new ways of looking at things. One of them may take a position just for the sake of debate, but they seldom get really angry.

In some cases, one Gemini woman will consistently play the role of one side of the versatile personality, and her partner will play the other. For example, one woman may play the shy, introverted intellectual aspect, while her partner will play the outgoing social gadabout. Keep in mind that with Gemini these roles can be fluid, and role reversal is always a surprising possiblity. Even though Gemini is primarlily an intellectual sign, and these two women are great intellectual companions, they can also be uncannily psychic with each other. Often one woman will pick up the thought of the other, and know when the other will phone or what she's about to say. These two women will always create a lively atmosphere around them, and their home will be the gathering place for creative, forward-thinking people. Sexually, these two women are very well matched. Mental rapport is as important, if not more important, than sensuality, and the subliminal rapport so important for intimacy happens almost automatically with two Gemini women.

Gemini Loving Taurus

The Gemini / Taurus combination brings together two very different personalities. Taurus is an earth sign, and security is very important to her. Gemini is an air sign, and loves the freedom to take off at any time without being encumbered by any structure. The Taurus woman can be a stay-at-home type; she loves togetherness after supper with a warm fire in the fireplace. Gemini loves to get about, going to movies and parties, going out with friends, and going to endless meetings. These two can have a compatible relationship if they can compromise and not be upset if one wants to stay home all the time and the other wants to go out.

These two women can be very helpful to each other, as each can supply the other with something she lacks. The Taurus woman can give her Gemini partner a much-needed grounding and stability. The Gemini woman loves new ideas and possibilities, but sometimes she may feel confused and overwhelmed by all the different alternatives she sees. The Taurus woman can offer her a sense of what is basic and enduring beneath all the flux on the surface of things. The Taurus woman can teach her Gemini partner how to relax, how to slow down and complete one thing at a time. The Taurus woman can supply the solidity that the Gemini woman lacks. If the Gemini can appreciate this and not feel hemmed in by it, their relationship will have a chance to flourish.

The Gemini woman, by contrast, can offer her Taurus partner the stimulation of new ideas and new ways of doing things. She can bring a fresh breeze into the otherwise rather staid life of her Taurus partner. She can help her Taurus partner to talk about and bring out into the open feelings that would otherwise be pent up inside. The Gemini woman can show her partner that it is possible to work through many differences by talking openingly with each other.

If these two women can work through their differences, they can have a creative relationship. Taurus is very sensual and needs a lot of touching and cuddling. Gemini needs to be able to discuss her own sexuality, and for her, mental rapport is at least as important as physical rapport.

Gemini Loving Aries

The Aries/Gemini combination brings together two high-energy people. An Aries, a fire sign, combined with a Gemini, an air sign, can create a conflagration. Both these women, already highly excitable by themselves, will be charged and stimulated by each other's company. They will talk a mile a minute, and come up with all sorts of plans, dreams, and possibilities together. The difference between them is that Aries needs to act now -- even if this is not always well-advised. Gemini, on the other hand, loves to think about all kinds of ways of doing the same project and tends to become vacillatory. An Aries woman becomes impatient with her Gemini partner's talk and doubts and schemes. The Gemini woman does not want to rush into something when she hasn't explored all the ramifications.

This combination has so much going for it that the problems are really minor. The Aries woman will love the way her Gemini partner will take up some brainstorm the Aries has had and expand on all the ingenious ways it could be developed. Aries also enjoys all the interesting people her Gemini partner knows and brings into their lives. The Gemini woman opens up all kinds of new vistas for her Aries partner to rush into and explore. The Gemini woman finds that her Aries partner is fully able to give her all the excitement she has ever craved. She will admire the way the Aries woman can take an idea and start acting on it without being wracked by indecision. The Gemini can learn the importance of acting when the iron is hot, so to speak, rather than procrastinating and waiting until it is too late.

From the point of view of intimacy, these two could have some problems. Neither one is easily in touch with her deeper feelings. They both tend to be "head" people, and communicate wonderfully on the intellectual level, but may need to work at communicating their deepest needs to one another. Their relationship may seem more like a sister contact rather than a lover contact. The same thing applies to their sexual relationship. For Gemini, intellectual rapport may be enough, but the Aries woman can be very passionate and want that from her partner. Since these two are so compatible in every other way they should be able to work out this difference in their sexual needs.