Aries Women:

Aries is the sign of independence. There is a sense of always being alone. They
feel being alone has always offered a chance of pure self-focus, even when involved in a relationship. They like to watch themselves grow. An Aries woman likes to share her insights about herself with others. Therefore, her friends are of utmost importance when she is single. But, no matter how many friends she has, the most important thing for an Aries is independence and freedom. Ultimately, she knows she must rely on herself. The Aries woman needs to build a strong inner center. Behind the appearance of aggressive self-strength there often lurks deep vulnerability and self-doubt. Once inner doubts are quenched, there is no stopping an Aries woman. When she knows who she is and what she wants, nothing can stand in her way. The most important quality for an Aries woman is self-confidence. Usually, other women believe that Aries women are more self-confident than they actually feel inside. Often what looks like self-confidence is actually bravado. It is a facade. To develop true self-confidence, the Aries woman needs to honestly evaluate from where her self-doubts spring. Inside she may feel like a child who doesn't measure up to her parents' expectations. When she conquers these deep-set doubts she will have a true sense of self-esteem. Her initiative and daring will spring from a sense of inner clarity. What stops an Aries woman is not fear, it is lack of faith in her own personal strength. They crave perfection and uniqueness, but remember that they need to work hard for these attributes. That means taking one issue at a time, dealing with it, then letting it go. They mustn't let go too fast. An Aries is very good at startings and beginning, but has trouble with completion. Perseverance is something they need to learn. Their methods of self-discovery are very fast, and without tunnel vision they will discover that it's the pursuit of self that's more worthy of their attention than the goal of mastery.

Aries Loving Scorpio

The Aries/Scorpio combination brings together two very powerful people. Both women can be very forceful and aggressive in their own way. Both are passionately emotional, but express this emotion differently. The Arie's expression is very direct and outspoken; you always know where this woman stands. The Scorpio woman, however, has powerful emotions but tends to keep them in. If the Aries gets angry, she may remember it for years. Even though the Scorpio woman is more reserved, she respects her Aries partner's outspoken honesty. Both women can be daring and courageous, and each respects this in the other.

This relationship will need to have many areas of agreement if it is to succeed, since if the two women disagree, their emotions could erupt into a volcano. And although the Scorpio woman respects her Aries partner's honesty, she would not be pleased at the Aries tendency to be so open and frank with other people about matters the Scorpio would like kept secret. Since Scorpio emotions run so deep, it is hard for the Aries woman to predict what is and what is not off-limits to talk about. The Scorpio woman is also very sensitive (although she may not show it), and a thoughtless remark from her Aries partner could wound her deeply, though she might never let on. These two women will probably love each other passionately, even though at times it might look more like a war than a love relationship. If the Aries woman can learn more consideration for her Scorpio partner's feelings, and if the Scorpio can curb her tendency to be jealous and learn to trust the Aries, these two could live in much more harmony.

Together these two women can move mountains. They both have the ability to go through devastating experiences and come out reborn. They both have tremendous energy and vitality. The Scorpio woman can help the Aries focus her energy in a creative direction. The home they share will probably be immaculate and well-organized. Neither will expect to spend most of their time together. Sexually, these women should be very compatible, since they are both highly sexed and passionate in their approach to lovemaking.

Aries Loving Libra

The Aries/Libra combination can either be completely ideal or a disaster. These two signs are on opposite sides of the zodiac, and can either complement each other or conflict with each other. Aries is the sign of the self and acting self-reliantly. Libra is the sign of awareness of the other person's point of view and of partnerships. The Aries woman can supply what her Libra partner lacks, and vice versa. When these women work harmoniously together they are like mirrors. Aries emphasizes self-awareness, Libra brings out the awareness, Libra brings out the awareness of another person's needs. The Libra woman helps balance her Aries partner's energy and initiative. She loves reflecting back this energy in the form of appreciation. At the same time, the Aries woman sometimes gets impatient with the Libran's need to keep everyone happy. And sometimes it seems to the Libra woman that the Aries is being inconsiderate just to be contrary.

Together these two women will attract many people to them. These two should spark each other's creativity, especially in the realm of the arts. The Libran helps refine the undisciplined but creative power of Aries energy. And when these two are not arguing (which may be often) they can carry on a flow of stimulating conversation. Sexually, these two should be very compatible, since the Libran woman is a highly responsive partner to the ardent nature of the Aries woman.

Aries Loving Aquarius

The Aries/Aquarius combination is generally a smooth and flowing one. The fire of Aries and the air of Aquarius support and expand each other. Freedon-loving Aquarius admires the honesty and fresh sponaneity of Aries, and the Aries woman loves the sense of lofty detachment that the Aquarian woman often projects (even though the Aries woman has trouble being detached about anything). Both these women will value freedom and independence in their relationship, and each will find it easy to respect the other's individuality and autonomy. In general, each will find the other a stimulating and inspiring companion on the mental level. In fact, these two often come together because they share some common vision, dream, or cause.

The problems that tend to arise between these two women are minor in one sense, but nevertheless need attention because they often revolve around intimate emotional communication. While the Aries woman does not easily communicate tenderness and affection, her feelings are ardent and intense. She craves reassurance and warmth from her partner. The Aquarius woman often has a tremendous ability to focus her mind, but although she too may have intense feelings, the most important thing to her is taking a detached position from which she can see things comprehensively and objectiively. She may find the Aries demand for a passionate emotional response unsettling. The Aries in turn may feel that the Aquarius does not really care about her because the Aquarian emotional expression is so cool. In other words, the same qualities that can be so attractive to these two women on the intellectual level could be a problem on the emotional level. For this relationship to go beyond a superficial level, the Aquarian must learn to share her feelings more openly and the Aries must realize that just because love is not stated directly does not mean it is not there.

Whether these two women resolve this emotional issue or not, they will nonetheless make excellent companions. The home they share will have an open quality that draws many creative and intelligent people to visit. The two women may find that a larger group with whom they can share common goals is an integral part of their relationship. Neither woman will demand that they spend most of their time together, although in the natural course of things they will enjoy spending a lot of time together. Sexually, these two women could have a compatible relationship once they

Aries Loving Cancer

The Aries/Cancer combination has very strong positive and negative aspects to it. Aries energy is strong and assertive, while Cancer is receptive and sensitive. Together one can complement the other, as Cancer receives and nourishes the forward-moving, fiery energy of Aries. The soft and gentle Cancer woman feels energized by her Aries partner. And the forceful Aries (who nevertheless may feel insecure beneath her outer bravado) finds soothing warmth with her sympathetic Cancer partner. Aries can bring excitement into the Cancer's life, while Cancer can give Aries a sense of roots.

This relationship can bring complementary energies together, or it can bring the clash of two very different personalities. For an Aries woman, her Cancer partner's motherly concern can be comforting, but at times it can also be smothering to the Aries' need for independence and freedom. For the Cancer woman, her Aries partner brings a lot of zest and excitement to her life, it's true- but the Aries temperament can also be very abrupt and abrasive. Without meaning to, the Aries woman can impulsively say something that will wound her sensitive Cancer partner's feelings. The Aries will then be bewildered when the other woman retreats in hurt silence. Above all, this is a hightly emotional relationship, often characterized by volatile ups and downs. This can be positive, especially, because both women tend to react to life on a gut level and are very aware of each other instinctively. It is a very changeable relationship, also. One moment the two women will be loving and tender, and the next the Aries woman will go storming out the door, leaving the Cancer woman in tears.

As these two women grow to understand each other more and more, they will find ways of circumventing such unfortunate scenes. Both will need to modify their behavior to some extent and then a very happy relationship will be possible. The Aries woman must learn to be more aware of how sensitive her Cancer partner is, and be more solicitous of her feelings. The Cancer woman must learn to be a little tougher, and then not take everything their Aries partner says so seriously. Sexually, these two can have a very satisfying relationship. Cancer loves the Aries passion, and Aries loves the Cancer's emotional responsiveness. Aries may need to develop more tenderness in the way she expresses love, otherwise Cancer may feel she isn't loved.

Aries Loving Virgo

The Aries/Virgo combination brings together two very different people. The alchemy of their temperment may work very well, or the two may continually be at odds with each other. Fiery Aries plunges into things in a headlong fashion; cautious Virgo wants to think about every detail before she acts. The Virgo woman can be very decisive and efficient once she has analyzed all the facts. But in the meantime, her Aries partner may be at her wit's end with impatience. Virgo approaches life in a cool, detached way, while Aries is hot and passionate.

The question is, can these two women develop a harmonious relationship? The answer is, cautiously, yes, if certain adjustments are made. But first, let's examine more closely how these women tend to interact with each other. The Virgo woman is a stickler for doing things perfectly. Her Aries partner means well, but she can be rather slap-dash in her approach to details. If the Virgo woman can learn to appreciate the creative flair that her Aries partner can add to anything they do together, these two can work very constructively. At the same time, if the Aries woman can grow to understand the need for systematic, thorough-going effort in any task, she will find that her creative inspirations can actually be used for practical applications. Another issue is the Virgo woman's tendency to be critical of her Aries partner. Aries hates criticism, all the more so if she disagrees with the perfectionistic standard that the Virgo may be using to judge her. The Virgo woman's intention is to help the Aries, but her partner will never understand that. If the Virgo woman can learn to exercise more tact and tone down her criticism, she will find she has much more influence on her Aries partner. Aries wants to please those she loves, but criticism must be offered in the right way.

Both women have keen minds and the ability to eliminate in-essentials and get to the heart of an issue. Each should admire this ability in the other. Both women feel most comfortable with simplicity and having an uncluttered environment. This common trait should go far in making them more comfortable. Sexually, there is much to work through since Virgo is cautious and reserved, and Aries is so passionate.

Aries Loving Capricorn

The Aries/Capricorn combination can be a strong one, but there may be some major problems to work out. Fiery Aries is impetuous, willful, sometimes reckless; earthy Capricorn is cautious and wants things carefully planned out. Capricorn needs structure; Aries tends to resist structure or any form of restriction. Clashes between these two women may be almost inevitable at times. At the same time, there is a sensitive, insecure side of Aries (often hidden behind a brash facade), that can appreciate the structure and grounding that Capricorn knows how to provide, as long as the Aries does not feel hemmed in. And the Capricorn woman can appreciate her Aries partner's zest and initiative, as long as the Capricorn's carefully built plans are not threatened.

The Capricorn woman's approach to love emphasizes the idea of commitment and dependability. The Aries woman is capable of great loyalty, but she hates to feel tied to "should" and "shouldn't". The Aries will feel she should have teh freedom to move with any impulse, even if she chooses not to. Therefore, the Capricorn woman may tend to feel insecure at times with her Aries partner, and the Aries woman my resent it whenher Capricorn partner imposes expectations and obligations on their relationship. One problem here may lie in the two women's perceptions of each other. The Aries may see the Capricorn as having an almost parental strength which is both attractive and threatening, but in fact the Capricorn woman often feels very insecure, and lonely beneath her cool mask of efficiency. by the same token, the Capricorn may shrink from the harsh verbal attack her outspoken Aries partner occasionally hurls at her. She will feel deeply hurt, not realizing how insecure the Aries woman may feel.

If these two women can probe beneath the protective armor they both wear, they can come to a deep meeting of hearts. As a couple, this combination can make a great team, once they begin to work together rather than against each other. They are both dynamos of energy once given a project, and the two of them together can accomplish what ten other people might not be able to do. They are both very hard-working; neither one can stand to be idle for long. When acting constructively, the Capricorn woman can help discipline and direct her Aries partner's creative power. Sexually, these two can be very compatible once they resolve some of their emotional tensions.

Aries Loving Leo

The Aries/Leo combination brings together two very strong individuals. Both Aries and Leo are fire signs, and independence and self-expression are important to them both. If these two women can resist the temptation to try to dominate each other, they will find they have a lot in common. Each woman will respect the other's integrity as an individual. Each will allow the other freedom to be who she is, and to act on that. Each will enjoy the other's high spirits, spontaneity, and sense of playfulness about life. They usually will have a good time together. Neither one is intimidated by the other woman's strength. They won't have to walk on eggs around each other, they can both be honest and outspoken with each other and needn't worry about hurting each other's feelings.

The difference between the two signs can also enrich their relationship. The Aries woman is much more impulsive and reckless than her Leo partner. The Leo woman may be content to settle in to a comfortable situation, especially if she has plenty of latitude to arrange things according to her liking. Her Aries partner, however, will get restless and want to strike off in a new direction almost as soon as they have gotten comfortable. This can be a little unsettling for the Leo woman, who likes to be in control of her life, but it can also help keep her on her toes. At the same time, the Leo woman can help give stability to her Aries partner. She can help the Aries channel all that impetuous energy so that it can be used creatively and not be just a flash in the pan. The most frustrating thing for both these women is that if either wants to dominate the other, there is no way that either one will be dominated. And if one should try, there will definitely be fireworks. So unless these two women want to be frustrated it is best that they find ways to cooperate with each other rather than struggling with each other.

The most positive thing about the Aries/Leo relationship is that both women stimulate each other's creativity. When these two work in harmony they can accomplish tremendous projects together. Their combined energy and initiative is amazing. Sexually, they should be very compatible since both approach lovemaking passionately.

Aries Loving Sagittarius

The Aries/Sagittarius combination can be an excellent one. Since both are fire signs, both women are strong independent individuals. They both are very restless and fear any restriction of their personal freedom. The both thrive on physical activity. These two women will enjoy going places and doing things together. Both have very active minds and can spend hours discussing their ideas together.

The problems that arise in this relationship are generally minor as these two usually see eye-to-eye. When they do disagree, they can seem to be furious with each other, but more often than not each is just trying to make a vigorous point. When they really get angry, neither one stays angry for long. In no time they are ready to make up. Neither is the kind to hold a grudge. When they argue it is more often than not over some philosophical point, especially as Sagittarius is always searching for the truth. The Aries woman is inspired by this quality in her Sagittarian partner, even though alone she is not so prone to involve herself with abstract thought. The Sagittarius woman is helped by her Aries partner in putting her ideas into action.

The relationship between these two is more like comrades than lovers. Part of the reason for this is that they are both so active and outgoing that they seldom take the time to become sensitive to each other's deeper feelings. Neither one feels comfortable with hard-to-express emotions. Sexually, these two women can be compatible as they are both physically passionate. They may need to work more on the emotionally intimate side of their lovemaking.

Aries Loving Pisces

The Aries/Pisces combination brings together two very different women, but this match often works out better than might be expected. The Aries woman is a strong, assertive individual. The Pisces woman is the epitome of softness and sensitivity. These two women can complement each other OR the two may fail to find any ground for common understanding. Whichever way it works in this case has much to do with the two individual women. Optimally, the Pisces woman will find her Aries partner's initiative and forcefulness invigorating. The Pisces tendency to drive at times in a nebulous confusion will be counteracted by the Aries ability to take matters vigoroously in hand and give direction to Piscean unfocused energy, and the blunt, abrasive edge of the Aries personality will be softened by the Piscean woman's compassionate sensitivity. Pisces' all-accepting tolerance can be a valuable lesson for the Aries woman who is often indignant and bewildered by life's injustices. Aries' ability to challenge the status quo and stand up for one's rights will show the Pisces woman an alternative to playing the martyr.

Actually, these two women have more in common than might otherwise appear. Both Pisces and Aries bring to the relationship a deep and awe-filled sense of the mysterious dimensions of life, an experience that can be overwhelming. The approach of these two women to this experience will be very different, however. The Pisces woman tends to feel a part of this overwhelming universe, and drifts with the ebb and flow of life; the Aries woman feels the urge to combat anything that might submerge her independent identity even if it means fighting the whole universe. She feels she must assert her individuality against the flow of life. But beyond these two different approaches, both women feel a deeper link -- the link of their common vulnerability. For this reason, in spite of all their differences, these two women are capable of an amazing spiritual and emotional rapport.

Beneath their differences, the Pisces woman's heart will be touched by her Aries partner's surprising sensitivity. The Aries woman may feel more free to let down her guard and reveal her innermost feelings with her Pisces partner. Of course, even at best these two women could have problems. The Aries at times may run roughshod over her Pisces partner's delicate feelings -- and not even know it. The Pisces woman's indecisiveness might at times exasperate her Aries partner. But if there is sufficient desire to overcome these problems, a very satisfying relationship is possible between these two women. Sexually, they can have a very good connection, especially if the psychic link has been developed. If not, their approach to lovemaking may be too different: the Aries woman may be too insensitive, the Pisces woman too difficult.

Aries Loving Gemini

The Aries/Gemini combination brings together two high-energy people. An Aries, a fire sign, combined with a Gemini, an air sign, can create a conflagration. Both these women, already highly excitable by themselves, will be charged and stimulated by each other's company. They will talk a mile a minute, and come up with all sorts of plans, dreams, and possibilities together. The difference between them is that Aries needs to act now -- even if this is not always well-advised. Gemini, on the other hand, loves to think about all kinds of ways of doing the same project and tends to become vacillatory. An Aries woman becomes impatient with her Gemini partner's talk and doubts and schemes. The Gemini woman does not want to rush into something when she hasn't explored all the ramifications.

This combination has so much going for it that the problems are really minor. The Aries woman will love the way her Gemini partner will take up some brainstorm the Aries has had and expand on all the ingenious ways it could be developed. Aries also enjoys all the interesting people her Gemini partner knows and brings into their lives. The Gemini woman opens up all kinds of new vistas for her Aries partner to rush into and explore. The Gemini woman finds that her Aries partner is fully able to give her all the excitement she has ever craved. She will admire the way the Aries woman can take an idea and start acting on it without being wracked by indecision. The Gemini can learn the importance of acting when the iron is hot, so to speak, rather than procrastinating and waiting until it is too late.

From the point of view of intimacy, these two could have some problems. Neither one is easily in touch with her deeper feelings. They both tend to be "head" people, and communicate wonderfully on the intellectual level, but may need to work at communicating their deepest needs to one another. Their relationship may seem more like a sister contact rather than a lover contact. The same thing applies to their sexual relationship. For Gemini, intellectual rapport may be enough, but the Aries woman can be very passionate and want that from her partner. Since these two are so compatible in every other way they should be able to work out this difference in their sexual needs.

Aries Loving Taurus

The Aries/Taurus combination can be a creative one if each woman is willing to meet her partner halfway -- or more than halfway. Aries is a fire sign, and tends to impulsively jump into new projects. Taurus is an earth sign and always moves slowly and deliberately. The two together can help or frustrate each other. The Aries woman wants everything to happen immediately, and becomes impatient very easily. The Taurus woman is patient and cautious, and naything she enters into she wants plenty of time to think about.

This combination can work very creatively together. The Aries woman loves to start new projects, but is so impatient that she often has a hard time completing them. Her Taurus partner can help by influencing her to slow down and think things through. She can teach her Aries partner the value of taking the time to do one thing at a time and completing it. She can also teach the Aries about saving money for a rainy day, and not spending it on some whim. Although the Aries woman often projects a strong aggressive front, underneath her facade she has many insecurities. Her Taurus partner can give her the support and security she needs.

The Taurus woman can be helped by her Aries partner as well. Taurus has the tendency to become a little stodgy -- a stick in the mud. The fiery Aries woman brings a bright torch to the Taurus' secure existence. Aries brings her partner a new charge and vitality. The Aries woman will help move the Taurus out of any rut she might have gotten into. The Taurus woman often sees her Aries partner as being too impetuous, but she should recognize that this reckless energy, when given some grounding, can be tremendously creative. By the same token, the Aries woman should realize that her Taurus partner can help her to put her exciting ideas into a viable form.

These two women can get a lot accomplished together if they work with rather than against each other. The Taurus woman knows how to make the Aries woman feel loved and cared for. The Aries woman knows how to add spice to the Taurus woman's life. Sexually, these two can be very compatible as the Aries has the fire and passion, and the Taurus has the warmth and sensuality.

Aries Loving Aries

The combination of two fiery Aries together is a potent match. In this relationship, the impetuosity and passion of Aries will be strengthened and intensified. Two Aries together will fuel a true desire for accomplishment. If each partner respects the other's individuality, they can build strengths in each other and inspire each other to grow as independent people.

Both women have so much energy and dynamism that the question here is how to keep the relationship from becoming too volatile. With two Aries, the connection usually evolves very quickly. The challenge is to slow down the process. Sometimes both women are moving and growing so fast that there is no time to acknowledge each other's true selves, only a passing glimpse of what the other is going through. SLOW IT DOWN! Establish breathing room; sit down and share. The roots needed for deep sharing can only grow when space and time are given to getting to know and appreciate each other. There is a tendency for an Aries to be so absorbed in herself that she fails to see her partner's needs. Each must learn to be open to her partner's unique individuality, and neither can compel the other to adjust her ways.

It is a great gift that two Aries women together can appreciate each other's powerful individuality. Each can act as a mirror to the other, reflecting strengths -- and weaknesses. An Aries woman may see her partner as a mirror of her own courage, passion, and adventurousness, or as someone who tries to dominate and control her.