Aquarius Women:
Aquarius is an air sign, concerned with new ideas and social change. Aquarius women are highly original and innovative in their thinking. They usually have many progressive ideas about how to make the world a better place. They also tend to feel that they know all the answers and for this reason sometimes becomes dogmatic and inflexible. They value personal freedom above all else, and will rebel against restrictions on this freedom. The Aquarius woman usually considers herself a completely unique individual--a law unto herself. She will feel "different" from the rest of the women, and may feel that she always swims against the flow of the water. At the same time, she
is usually idealistic about women's relations. Finding harmony with women is important to her. She is prone to join all sorts of causes for social justice as she would love to help build her own vision of an ideal world. She loves to mix with women and has many friends. But, paradoxically, she also craves periods of complete solitude. Perhaps there is a strain in adjusting to other women, and Aquarians are not the most adaptable sign. In a love relationship the Aquarius woman hates to be confined to a humdrum existence. She needs the unpredictable and the freedom to come and go at will. Ironically, she also likes to be in control and may not want her partner to be too unpredictable. She does best with a partner who is flexible, but stable, and who gives her plenty of freedom but is there when the Aquarian needs someone to support her. This is a tall order to fill. Because the Aquarian is so rootless, she needs someone to give her roots, but don't expect her to become too rooted. Many problems can be overcome in a relationship with an Aquarian woman if she has a pronounced telepathic ability. Even though Aquarians love to discuss things intellectually, many differences of opinion will be overlooked if this telepathic connection exists. Your Aquarian will expect you to just naturally know what she wants and needs, and will appreciate it when you do.

Aquarius Loving Scorpio

The Scorpio/Aquarian combination brings together women of nature's power. This combination uses every asset available to relating to work out their differences. Scorpio, a water sign, takes uncompromising and emotional stands in life; Aquarius, an air sign, needs to see her partner clearly at all times. These two women approach relating differently: the Scorpio woman may have difficulty understanding the detached and sometimes aloof caring of her Aquarian partner, and the Aquarian woman may have lessons to learn about the emotionalism in the Scorpio advances. Both women have pride issues that must be addressed, and they tend to take stances which are based not on truth, but on ego gratification. The principles that are important to them must be redefined in the context of relating equally to each other. These two women will appreciate the way each has developed skills to focus on themselves. Both women, though, will resist any attempts at domination.

The main area of challenge is centered in the area of physical intimacy. The sensitive Scorpio woman may feel her Aquarian partner is too cool for true comfort and is indifferent when in actuality the Aquarian feels intimacy deeply but wants to take time - months, even years - to establish complete union. The Aquarian woman sometimes feels emotionally scattered by the psychic demands of the Scorpio woman.

When the challenges are quiet, their relationship is very constructive. Understanding and kindness prevail, and Aquarius not only learns about external promises of love, but feels a true sense of heartfelt contact with another woman. The Scorpio energy verifies the Aquarian woman's feelings of purpose.

Aquarius Loving Libra

The combination of Libra and Aquarius is karmic. Both Libra and Aquarius are air signs, concerned with finding and proving the truth through expanding their mental outlook on life and utilizing open verbal discussions. The Libra woman continually seeks balance and clarity through verbal accord; the Aquarius woman needs to find an objective and detached understanding of her role in the relationship. She is interested in the whole issue of living, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. She seeks understanding with her partner and needs to know how they fit together. The mental rapport is very strong between these two, and they will both tend to discuss their differences and character defects dispassionately and in the open. When differences arise between them, they are usually minor. They are both able to take an objective and detached perspective. However, there are subtle differences in the way they approach these differences. The Libra needs to find truth through seeing both sides of an issue, and becomes very elastic mentally in this partnership. The Aquarian tends to take one invariant position, which she trusts and feels is right. Once she takes this position she can hold to it firmly and even dogmatically. The Libra woman may see her Aquarian partner as being rigid and closed to other points of view, and the Aquarian woman may feel her Libra partner changes too readily with the circumstances, and is too concerned with people-pleasing.

Libra women desire continual interaction, and partnership is very important to them. The Aquarian woman is much more independent and needs a lot of space, and may need to be away from her partner a lot. The Libra woman may interpret this as rejection. In spite of these challenges, these two are very similar in their need to establish agreement through open and honest discussion. They will reach harmony and balance when honesty is achieved, and this issue is the most important issue in both their lives. Sexually, this combination enjoys each other's uniqueness and they talk a lot during sex.

Aquarius Loving Aquarius

The Aquarius and Aquarius combination is a very fast-paced connection. Aquarius is an air sign concerned with the freedom of a detached and impersonal perspective on life. Remember that the true test of freedom is within the arena of a relationship. These two women will keenly enjoy exchanges of theories of life and new perceptions of ways to be in this relationship, and both are fascinated by the realm of abstract ideas and theories. They are both well-equipped with self-focusing skills, and each truly respects the personal idiosyncracies of the other. There is a real opportunity to develop support mechanisms between these two women that is based on solid womanly-love ideals. The Aquarian woman is often eccentric and unpredicatable with her comments, and she will be tolerant of these character traits in her partner.

Although these two women have a great deal in common, their challenges will be due to the uncompromising nature of their views. Each can be very intolerant of the personal values of the other. The status of the relationship is the most important issue they will understand, and if there is disagreement on this level, peace will be infrequent as each woman tends to feel convinced that she is right about what she believes. Another challenge is that these women communicate beautifully on the intellectual level, but they may be hesitant on intimate feelings and sharing. Because of this there is great empathy for giving each other space. In order to really make a solid connection these two may need to cultivate ways of including intimate interactions in their life. Otherwise, these two may prefer a friendship to a relationship.

In spite of these issues, these women love to appreciate each other's freedom skills and enjoy a good and favorable belief in themselves while in this relationship. They will be motivated to maintain their love connection.

Aquarius Loving Cancer

The Cancer/Aquarius combination will require a lot of patience, tolerance, and acceptance from both parties. Cancer, a water sign, approaches life entirely from an emotional point of view, while Aquarius, an air sign, approaches life from a cool, objective mental standpoint. Cancer reacts to people and situations through gut-level feelings, and Aquarius, although capable of deep emotion, strives to separate herself as completely as possible from emotionality.

Obviously, these two women do things very differently. The Cancer woman will be frustrated at times in expressing her feelings with her Aquarian partner. She will feel that certain things that are very important are hard to express in abstract intellectual terms. The Aquarian woman tends to want to be completely divorced from personal, emotional needs and will find the Cancer woman's desire for emotional reassurance exasperating at times. To the Aquarian woman, mental rapport is the most important connection, and she can feel uncomfortable with a lot of emotional intimacy. The Aquarian tends to be independent and self-reliant and may feel smothered by the Cancer's tendency to nurture. The Cancer woman often finds her Aquarian partner cool and aloof, and the more the Cancer woman reaches out to her Aquarian partner, the more the Aquarian woman withdraws onto a high, detached plateau.

These two women will have to work hard to overcome these differences. The Cancer woman must learn not to take the things her Aquarian partner says or the actions she takes to detach from closeness so personally. She must realize that the most important thing for an Aquarian is the freedom to take an objective view of life. The Aquarian woman must learn more respect for her Cancer partner's feelings and sensitivity, and her need to nurture and support. The Aquarian must realize that this emotionality represents another side of life with which she needs to come to terms.

Once these two women accept each other's differences, they will find that they enrich each other's personalities. The Cancer woman will be able to approach life more objectively and see things from a broader perspective, and the Aquarian woman can be helped to get more in touch with her inner personal feelings and to become more balanced emotionally.

Sexually, these two women may have to work to attain compatibility. The Cancer woman is very warm and caring in her approach to love, and the Aquarian woman is more reserved and needs a lot of verbal interaction, as mental rapport is more important to her than the physical expression of love. The Aquarian needs to learn to express the feelings she may feel very intensely, but tends to keep under control.

Aquarius Loving Virgo

The Virgo and Aquarius combination brings together two women who are very different, and this combination is very rare. Virgo, an earth sign, is mainly concerned with grounding and practical issues, and Aquarius, an air sign, needs freedom to approach life from a detached and objective standpoint. The Aquarius woman dislikes being bound by routine relationship "together" and "not together" issues, and the Virgo woman will only feel comfortable when she knows where and how she stands in the relationship.

Although they are very different from each other, both approach life from a detached and mental point of view. The Virgo woman loves to understand and compare relationships and needs to have a well-organized life. The Aquarian woman, in her own way, can be very clear and objective when it comes to relating. These two women will respect each other's strong intellectual abilities and will profit from talking about experiences and issues that affect their relationship, from past encounters to their different ways of relating.

If these two can challenge these differences, especially in the area of emotional and spiritual pursuits, each will find the other a support. Intimacy between these two women is also a challenge, as the Virgo woman is discriminating in her approach to closeness, and the Aquarian is open and innovative. They can find a meeting point if the Virgo can learn to relax.

Aquarius Loving Capricorn

The Capricorn/Aquarius combination brings together two very different women who may need to compromise considerably to create a harmonious relationship. Capricorn, an earth sign, is concerned with secure structure and grounding; Aquarius, an air sign, needs the freedom to transcend mundane concerns, and sees life through a universal perspective. The Capricorn woman needs security and dependability in a relationship while the Aquarius woman needs the freedom to do whatever she pleases with no restrictions. The Capricorn woman will often tend to feel insecure with her Aquarian partner's unpredictable ways, and the Aquarian woman may rebel against the duties and expectations her Capricorn partner tries to impose on her.

In spite of these differences these women do have certain things in common. Both the Capricorn and Aquarius approach life from a more impersonal perspective. Both women are prone to involve themselves in larger social causes, and a meaningful career is important to both. Together they can be very effective in instigating social reform as both are very aware of the impact of social institutions on people's lives. Both women have the capacity to think abstractly and see the overall intellectual structure that governs life, and they will be able to share ideas with each other and find their mental interchanges productive. Each will respect the well-developed intellectual power of the other.

Although these two women may have a very good intellectual relationship they may have difficulty communicating deeper intimate feelings. Both women tend to approach life in a somewhat cool and detached manner, and neither woman is prone to wear her heart on her sleeve. This can be the basis of misunderstandings between them. The Capricorn woman, in particular, may feel her Aquarian partner is indifferent to her because the Aquarian tends to appear calm and detached in all situations. Both women have profound feelings beneath the surface but neither one knows how to communicate them easily and will often try to avoid doing so. Both are afraid of displaying strong emotion and want to appear outwardly in control. If these two women can overcome their emotional reserve and share with each other on a deeper level they will find they have a lot to offer each other: the Capricorn woman can offer her Aquarian partner a realistic structure within which the relationship can flourish, and the Aquarian woman can help her Capricorn partner to expand and lighten her approach to life, breaking out of the old molds that bind her and becoming more uninhibited.

Sexually, these two women may need to work at compatibility, as neither reveals her feelings and needs very easily. The Aquarian is more spontaneous sexually and wants to quickly switch from a serious endeavor into a romantic and playful connection, while her Capricorn partner may find difficulty releasing the seriousness and getting into the interchange of closeness. When the Aquarian learns to realize that her Capricorn partner does not move from one emotion to another easily and allows her time to adjust to this new proposal, all will work well. The Aquarian will add novelty and adventurousness to their sex lives.

Aquarius Loving Leo

The Leo and Aquarius connection can be very positive, but there are some differences to be accepted. Leo and Aquarius are opposite signs on the zodiac and either conflict with or complement each other. Leo is a fire sign and Aquarius is an air sign. Fire and air support and expand each other and these two women should be able to communicate openly and expand each other's perspectives on life. The Leo woman is concerned with the creative expression of her own personality, and the Aquarius women is concerned with creative activities that affect things on the broad collective level. She is concerned with large social causes and expansive ideals. Together these two women will have a wide-open social life. Together they will attract creative people from all walks of life.

Even though these two women usually get along harmoniously, there are significant problems that can arise. The Leo is very much rooted in the needs of her own personal ego and is highly emotional and often absorbed in herself. The Aquarius woman wants to detach herself from an egocentric perspective and is most interested in taking an impersonal stance in life. She is uncomfortable with the expression of strong personal emotion, and the Leo may see her as being cool and aloof and interested in everyone buy her, interpreting the detachment of the Aquarius as emotional indifference. The Aquarian woman sees her Leo partner as being self-centered and emotionally demanding and may feel that the Leo does not care enough about what happens in the world. She is uncomfortable with the temperamental storms and drama. The more attention the Leo woman demands, the more cold and distant the Aquarian woman is apt to become. She will withdraw into an inner world where the Leo cannot reach her.

In spite of these differences these women can be complementary to each other. The Leo woman can bring out the warm, personal side of Aquarius, and put her Aquarian partner in touch with feelings of the heart. The Aquarian can enlighten her Leo partner with caring and contribution toward humanity. When they are connecting harmoniously, they can generate a lot of creative energy and make important contributions to society and themselves. They both enjoy giving their energy freely and need to be active to feel fulfilled. They will each find their creativity stimulated by the other, and balanced out, and their mental perspectives will be expanded.

Sexually they are basically compatible, but the Leo's approach to love is generally more ardent than the Aquarian's. The Aquarian woman will always need a lot of friends and interests even if she is sexually faithful to one woman, and the Leo woman may become jealous and possessive if the Aquarian is not giving her the undivided attention she needs to feel secure. The Leo will feel more content in this relationship when she accepts her Aquarian partner's openness to other people as a natural part of her being and does not take it as a personal rejection.

Aquarius Loving Sagittarius

The Sagittarius/Aquarius combination can be an ideal match. Sagittarius, a fire sign, is a strong, independent individual, and Aquarius, an air sign, also loves freedom and needs a detached and universal perspective on life. Fire and air support and stimulate each other, and these two women will find that they have a lot in common, especially in the realm of intellectual interests. The Sagittarian woman is always seeking to find what lies beyond the next horizon, continually aspiring to find the most comprehensive view of life possible, and the Aquarian woman wants to establish a clear and objective standpoint removed from the personal limitations of human emotions, so the values of these two women usually work together very harmoniously.

Both women approach life similarly. Both are highly idealistic and need a great deal of personal freedom. They enjoy involving themselves in idealistic social causes, and will inspire each other in that direction. The problems in this relationship are minor, and revolve around the difficulty each woman has in expressing her intimate feelings. Both have brilliant minds and tend to think in expansive terms, but they also can be impractical about the daily details of life.

Another problem has to do with the fact that the Sagittarian is restless and needs constand change, while the Aquarian may seem at times to be inflexible, dogmatic, and resistant to other people's points of view; to the Aquarian woman, the Sagittarian may seem undependable because she is always changing her mind as new information reaches her. Also the Sagittarian woman has a hot temper and tends to express her anger in an explosive, outspoken way, and the Aquarian woman finds this upsetting because she is only comfortable with a calm and composed approach to life. The Sagittarian woman will find her Aquarian partner cool and aloof and hard to communicate with, especially when dealing with emotional feelings.

These women will have a wonderful mental rapport, and will support each other's ideals and understand each others' need for space and time alone. The main area they may need to develop is in expressing those deeper feelings that are beyond abstract concepts. Both Aquarius and Sagittarius tend to focus on an impersonal level of relating, and this could impede a close emotional bond.

Sexually, these women can be very compatible, especially as each communicates easily with the other and neither tends to push the other into the delicate areas of relating on deeper emotional levels; they respect each other's need for autonomy. Neither tends to be particularly sentimental or romantic, and neither expects that from the other.

Aquarius Loving Pisces

The Aquarius/Pisces combination can work out surprisingly well at times, but not when based on traditional relationship values. Aquarius, an air sign, can be very detached in her relationship with her Pisces, and the Pisces, a water sign, is deeply committed to strong feelings towards her partner. The Pisces woman feels very close and is willing to open herself up to the Aquarius woman; the Aquarian tends to be most concerned with herself in this relationship and with getting her needs met. Somehow the Pisces reaches many new plateaus because she allows herself to be supportive to her Aquarian partner. What is so interesting about this combination, is that the Pisces woman intuitively knows how to detach just seconds before the Aquarian woman does. The problems for the Pisces are the withdrawals, even though she initiates them, because she cares for her loving partner. Emotionally she needs the attention and affection of the Aquarian much more than the Aquarian needs her attention. The Aquarius woman tends to be uncomfortable with strong personal emotions, and therefore, she withdraws. There is another related challenge: the Aquarian is almost exclusively prone to take an intellectual view of a relationship and the Pisces relates from emotions. The Aquarian woman wants discussisons based on mental values that manifest as feelings, and the thought or mental processes don't alway match the feeling processes and sometimes there is a gap.

These two women are very helpful in the realm of personal growth. Each woman in her own way is a dreamer, and both are progressive in their approach to relationships. Each is deeply concerned about the spiritual well-being of the other, and they share a common belief in a higher power. Each will use higher self focusing skills to appreciate profoundly the other's need for spiritual fulfillment.

Aquarius Loving Gemini

The Gemini/Aquarius combination is usually a very harmonious one. Both Gemini and Aquarius are air signs and they enjoy spending a great deal of time exchanging ideas with each other. Both must have the freedom to explore new frontiers of the mind, and both hate being tied to a mundane routine. Each of these women will appreciate this characteristic in the other. They will spend hours together discussing the philosophical implications for this idea or that. Both of them enjoy people, and they will have many friends. Together they will reinforce each other's gregarious tendencies. They will probably enjoy joining many social and idealistic organizations together.

These two women get along beautifully on the intellectual level, but sometimes they may have problems because neither one is easily in touch with her inner personal feelings. They each take a cool and detached view of life, and both like to theorize about things, but they may have trouble with raw feelings that are difficult to categorize and pigeonhole. Another problem may stem from the fact that Aquarian women are more independent loners than Gemini women, and during certain periods the Aquarian will want to be alone. The Gemini woman hates to be alone, and finds her Aquarian partner aloof and out of reach during these times. The Aquarian may find her Gemini partner's indecisive and vacillatory ways hard to deal with, as once the Aquarian formulates some idea of what she wants to do, she will stick to it tenaciously. When they do disagree, the Gemini may feel her Aquarian parner takes too rigid and dogmatic a stance, while the Aquarian woman may feel exasperated because she can never count on where the Gemini will stand on anything.

But basically these are minor problems. Mental rapport is so important to both these women that they will, ultimately, find ways of resolving their differences. Both are most comfortable when an atmosphere of open and calm reason prevails. At their best, the Gemini helps her Aquarian partner stay open to new perceptions and experiment with new ways to do things. The Aquarian woman helps her partner to find enduring principles that can keep her centered through changing circumstances. Sexually, these two women should be well matched because they communicate so well verbally and are able to talk about their sexual needs.

Aquarius Loving Taurus

The Taurus/Aquarius combination brings together two strong individuals. These two women may have many differences to work out between them. Taurus, an earth sign, seeks stability, comfort, and practical focus; Aquarius, an air sign, seeks the freedom to explore the higher abstract reaches of the mind. The Aquarian woman will resist being tied to the mundane, practical realm of life, and to her, the Taurus woman may seem preoccupied with stodgy routines. As a progressive, inventive, and often revolutionary thinker, the Aquarian may openly rebel against the Taurus' traditional ways. To the Taurus woman, the Aquarius may seem like an impractical idealist and dreamer. The Aquarian may seem erractic and unpredictable to the slow-moving Taurus. If these two women are going to find common ground, they will both have to compromise, even though they are each in their own fashion extremely stubbborn.

The main problem between these two women is that while each tends to have very different values, they both hold on to their opinions as if life depended on it. They are equally strong-willed and uncompromisingly single-minded, and approach things from the point of view of fixed principles. Actually, when they can look beyond their differences, they can each respect and support the other's integrity as strong individuals. Both women are capable of great self-control, and although they have powerful feelings, they maintain a calm and composed mask. These are things they can respect in each other, now their task is for each to develop more appreciation for the other's basic values.

The Taurus needs to see that her Aquarian partner can help shake her out of whatever stagnant rut she may have gotten into. She needs to open her mind to the Aquariun's far-seeing ideas and expand her horizons. The Aquariun woman needs to realize that her Taurus partner can give her the grounding and practical focus that can help her revolutionary ideals a reality. If these two can work together in harmony, they can become creative social movers. There is tremendous creative power in both these signs, and when they work in unison they release a lot of energy. Sexually, these two women may have to work for compatibility, since the Taurus is strongly sensual and passionately emotional, while the Aquarian orientation is towards mental rapport before physical.

Aquarius Loving Aries

The aquaries/aries combination is generally a smooth and flowing one. The fire of Aries and the air of Aquarius support and expand each other. Freedon-loving Aquarius admires the honesty and fresh sponaneity of Aries, and the Aries woman loves the sense of lofty detachment that the Aquarian woman often projects (even though the Aries woman has trouble being detached about anything). Both these women will value freedom and independence in their relationship, and each will find it easy to respect the other's individuality and autonomy. In general, each will find the other a stimulating and inspiring companion on the mental level. In fact, these two often come together because they share some common vision, dream, or cause.

The problems that tend to arise between these two women are minor in one sense, but nevertheless need attention because they often revolve around intimate emotional communication. While the Aries woman does not easily communicate tenderness and affection, her feelings are ardent and intense. She craves reassurance and warmth from her partner. The Aquarius woman often has a tremendous ability to focus her mind, but although she too may have intense feelings, the most important thing to her is taking a detached position from which she can see things comprehensively and objectiively. She may find the Aries demand for a passionate emotional response unsettling. The Aries in turn may feel that the Aquarius does not really care about her because the Aquarian emotional expression is so cool. In other words, the same qualities that can be so attractive to these two women on the intellectual level could be a problem on the emotional level. For this relationship to go beyond a superficial level, the Aquarian must learn to share her feelings more openly and the Aries must realize that just because love is not stated directly does not mean it is not there.

Whether these two women resolve this emotional issue or not, they will nonetheless make excellent companions. The home they share will have an open quality that draws many creative and intelligent people to visit. The two women may find that a larger group with whom they can share common goals is an integral part of their relationship. Neither woman will demand that they spend most of their time together, although in the natural course of things they will enjoy spending a lot of time together. Sexually, these two women could have a compatible relationship once they find ways of communicating better emotionally as well as intellectually.